Guys, does this list turn you off

[Radu]

I dunno, she seems like a sweet girl...and I don't think she is asking for that much. *runs and hides*

 

Could it be that your list goes to a higher item number ?

[Eternal Sunshine]

Could it be that your list goes to a higher item number ?

 

I don't have a list

 

But lots of items on her list are common sense. She sounds like someone that has been played in the past and is try too hard not to let that happen.

[StrangeBehaviors]

She's nuts. Any guy that met a good portion of the requirements of the list wouldn't want to be with someone that would make such a list.

 

Sounds like some bad Rom/Com...."The List".

[manup]

check out this long list of what this woman wants. Let me know if this turns you off because it does me. I only read about 6 of the conditions.

 

Is she the hottest woman you've ever seen? Does she cook clean etc...? If not then that list is gross.

[Woggle]

It started off okay but then quickly became more and more wacky.

[yongyong]

good luck on white knighting.

 

you seem like a guy who needs to go to 3rd world country to find a wife.

 

 

I dont know. She is pretty and most every guy is like yongyong and wanting to blow his manhood all over her boobs. So why not put a list of 65 million stipulations? It might just weed out the 99% of trash that is on a free dating site. That 1 % might actually notice that she enjoys writing and that most of her requirements are things anyone should expect in a human being

[samsungxoxo]

What are your deal-breakers?

Deal-breakers

 

1) Negative attitude towards women and complaining about how life is unfair

2) Overly religious that he's one of the ''waiting till marriage'' types

3) Drug addict and other terrible habits (smokes frequently, composite liar, and basically horrible personality)

4) Has slept around during his youth (this matters to me because I don't share that lifestyle)

5) Wants kid

6) Has cheated before or abused a woman in the past (well cheating might be forgiven if it was a once mistaken done when he was a teen but has regret but not abuse)

7) Is frugal... yuck

WoW ... 65 items on the list, even though some of them are common sense she is looking for basically a caretaker [she's a taker, not a giver] instead of a relationship with compromises

Yeah... I guess she'll be endlessly waiting for that imaginary man to come to her life. I don't see it happening soon for her.

[Ross MwcFan]

It's too much. I wouldn't want to be with someone like that.

[todreaminblue]

The first time i read this i was reading the whole computer screen that probably wont make sense to you....iill try and explain...ummmmmmm.....i the first thing i seen was wonder what she looks like .....would i turn to stone...... rock stone i break rocks.there fore it s me cryptically....this list is me........sick mind i know........my hear tbeats faster ....no.......no.....yes yes.....they have figured your a freak.......you are you are a freak......my head does this shimmer thing i feeel really small and cold.... i try and read all the words in the list and i cant they swirl in and out and evry one of them seems to pertain to me...then its back to turn to stone......rock break......i can see the list now means that youw ere talking abotu a really freaky guy that some girl would want...no one would want that if they were sane...a woman would have to be out of her mind to want that....and in reality they dont....a lot of them hate me....accept for the ones who get to know me and who i care about...who give me a chance....this chance is rare.....sorry guys for misunderstanding what you wrote...not intended,,,hugs ,....deb

[todreaminblue]

good luck on white knighting.

 

you seem like a guy who needs to go to 3rd world country to find a wife.

 

 

who's white knighting yongyong....

[jeffmeyers]

The list is too long (and tends to get weirder as you read it). It not only makes me want to run for the hills, it makes me wish for the person who drew it to not find anyone.

[johncooper]

may be she is using you for her psychology project:laugh:

[todreaminblue]

may be she is using you for her psychology project:laugh:

 

 

 

yes that coul dbe it.....she the profiler is wanting to see how fast a man can run or eyes glaze over ....hmmmmm....i think it is one two three four five....brain not functioning.....wind whistling those big spinny things i cant remember the name for blowing across the street.....**** lol there you go my shrinks have taken the name for the big spinny thing....im their experiment....lolfunny.....deb

[Leopard]

My current boyfriend fits 90% of these requirements.

[MrNate 2.0]

He list is almost as long as mine.

[FitChick]

Good Lord! And I thought the "requirements" list I read today was bad:

 

A fit, fab, frolicsome female (no doubt, feisty too ! ) will be grrreat.

 

And while Chemistry, is the starting point, it is only so for the first 30 seconds each morning, each day, each time a couple meet each other afresh. Equally important are :

 

the Physics - the energy, mass, speed, flow, synchronicity of how we respectively live our lives

 

how we Engineer our relationship ...how we work around each other, issues, priorities - specifically, I'm looking for a woman who processes how we are / what we do, in a caring, warm, soft questionning, watching, understanding way, and not in an aggrieved, critical manner.

 

our fundamental attitudes eg exercise not dieting, fitness not fatness, garlic and ginger everyday ; I want a woman who bases her looks and self-confidence on strenuous exercise, some make-up is fine if robust energy is the foundation, chi not Chanel.

 

similar standards of public behaviour, and private interests eg tennis will be good, and at squash - brilliant ! Skiing and sea sports, ditto, even if the frequency isn't. And, a woman who wants real time together - long, tender days, playing, massage, dancing, Tai Chi, reading the classics, receiting poetry ...even finding and building an eco-home/farmette together ? And buying & rennovating a ski apartment / chalet ?

However, some strict no-no's please : smoking, gum, sweets, high-maintenance, low-sharing, pushiness, only wanting a partial relationship ; horse/s, dairy herd, dog/s (until we have our eco-home + grounds for cats, dogs, chooks, buzzy bees etc).

 

Just a full-on woman who wants a passionate affaire every day with a man who will love her to bits, encourage & support her work/career, and be useful around the house eg cook you a meal at any time, iron your blouses and skirts properly, keep the house organised, stocked, and budgeted .... some bachelors are capable, Ms Fab !

 

Your type of man ???

 

This is his new, modified version. The previous one had a list of foods you must like as well as obscure books you had to have read. He is 60 and never married. Can't imagine why.

[Silly_Girl]

My current boyfriend fits 90% of these requirements.

 

I just went back through with that in mind.

 

Of 65 (and many have more than one item listed) he falls down on:

 

Exercise and food: he eats like a bastard, so 'good dietary habits' doesn't fit, however he exercises plenty so as not to put on weight.

Family: he might not qualify for 'having a nice family', his sister's a freak.

Spirituality: he'd piss himself if I asked him to attend church with me, but then again, that would never happen anyway.

 

I'm not going to show him this though. Don't want him getting all smug. I might have to write 'Always humble' as number 66....

[Dismantled]

The funny thing about that list is it contradicts itself or is hypocritical and the stupid bimbo doesn't even realize it.

 

-Must not care about looks but has to be tall and muscular looking.

 

-Must want to go to church but also be sexually liberal.

 

-Tolerates and sticks by me when Im depressed but smiles 100% of he time.

 

-Must be willing to compromise and be criticized on everything, but never comment on how to decorate our living space or how I can dress.

[NoMagicBullet]

Good Lord! And I thought the "requirements" list I read today was bad:

 

A fit, fab, frolicsome female (no doubt, feisty too ! ) will be grrreat.

 

And while Chemistry, is the starting point, it is only so for the first 30 seconds each morning, each day, each time a couple meet each other afresh. Equally important are :

 

the Physics - the energy, mass, speed, flow, synchronicity of how we respectively live our lives

 

... (etc, etc, etc) ...

 

This is his new, modified version. The previous one had a list of foods you must like as well as obscure books you had to have read. He is 60 and never married. Can't imagine why.

 

Sounds like a clone of an ex-boyfriend of mine, especially with the foods and obscure books. Except this guy seems a bit better adjusted and much more cheerful.

[FitChick]

This guy said he read the Erotic Review,which I assumed was erotic literature. I just googled it and it reviews professional escorts! That's the only type of woman who could tolerate him I guess.

[proseandpassion]

Good Lord! And I thought the "requirements" list I read today was bad:

 

A fit, fab, frolicsome female (no doubt, feisty too ! ) will be grrreat.

 

And while Chemistry, is the starting point, it is only so for the first 30 seconds each morning, each day, each time a couple meet each other afresh. Equally important are :

 

the Physics - the energy, mass, speed, flow, synchronicity of how we respectively live our lives

 

how we Engineer our relationship ...how we work around each other, issues, priorities - specifically, I'm looking for a woman who processes how we are / what we do, in a caring, warm, soft questionning, watching, understanding way, and not in an aggrieved, critical manner.

 

our fundamental attitudes eg exercise not dieting, fitness not fatness, garlic and ginger everyday ; I want a woman who bases her looks and self-confidence on strenuous exercise, some make-up is fine if robust energy is the foundation, chi not Chanel.

 

similar standards of public behaviour, and private interests eg tennis will be good, and at squash - brilliant ! Skiing and sea sports, ditto, even if the frequency isn't. And, a woman who wants real time together - long, tender days, playing, massage, dancing, Tai Chi, reading the classics, receiting poetry ...even finding and building an eco-home/farmette together ? And buying & rennovating a ski apartment / chalet ?

However, some strict no-no's please : smoking, gum, sweets, high-maintenance, low-sharing, pushiness, only wanting a partial relationship ; horse/s, dairy herd, dog/s (until we have our eco-home + grounds for cats, dogs, chooks, buzzy bees etc).

 

Just a full-on woman who wants a passionate affaire every day with a man who will love her to bits, encourage & support her work/career, and be useful around the house eg cook you a meal at any time, iron your blouses and skirts properly, keep the house organised, stocked, and budgeted .... some bachelors are capable, Ms Fab !

 

Your type of man ???

 

This is his new, modified version. The previous one had a list of foods you must like as well as obscure books you had to have read. He is 60 and never married. Can't imagine why.

 

Basically he wants a woman who's exactly like him? Gosh, I guess he'll have to wait for robot technology to improve...

[danny in van]

I don't mind her list at all...in fact I think whoever wrote it likely is that way herself and is hoping for the same in a partner...Respectful, chivalrous, non materialistic, health conscious, lifelong learner...Why does wanting this get everyone all agitated on LS? Because they aren't these things?

Now if she demanded and presented this list to a suitor it would be odd...but it would just be her that suffers so what's the big deal if she did?

[NoMagicBullet]

This guy said he read the Erotic Review,which I assumed was erotic literature. I just googled it and it reviews professional escorts! That's the only type of woman who could tolerate him I guess.

 

OMG! That someone would put that on their dating profile... I don't have words for that. Definitely not like my ex in that respect; he was kind of prudish and way too much of a cheapskate to patronize escorts. But the extra socialization has probably helped this guy! Too bad no escort was willing to give up candy, gum, and her dogs for this guy.

[oaks]

check out this long list of what this woman wants. Let me know if this turns you off because it does me. I only read about 6 of the conditions.

 

It's a turn-off without even reading it. I don't suppose the profile indicated, in as much detail, what she was offering in similar or complementary areas?

[Bristolius]

My current boyfriend fits 90% of these requirements.

 

Does that mean he's not good enough?