chphan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 So about 2 weeks and I had a good conversations and meet up with someone at least from my point of view. We both agree to start off as friends. No problem she's actually a nice person to be friends with. But of course there's still that hidden element if both of us are interested in being more than friends at this stage. I'm sitting here trying to gauge our conversations and messages and I can't seem to figure out if she's interested or not. I could try flirting with her more but that might makes things a bit uncomfortable with her if she isn't and put her in a bad spot trying to respond back. And I'm not really into playing mind games. Would it be better to be just direct and honest, asking her directly about it after 2 weeks of interacting that if there's any interest on her part to be more than friends so we can discuss the issue as adults? If she only wants to be friends at least it ease of my mind and I can just be a friend and go look for someone else. This way I don't sit around going.... Does she like me, does she not like me that way, does she like me, does she not like me that way, ect, ect.
Meg717 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I say just ask. Honesty is always the best policy! She could be thinking the same thing and might be too shy to ask you.
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