Mali25 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 About a month ago, I met a guy & we started to have conversation & he said he wanted to get to know me. I told him no because I was leaving the next day & I wouldn't be back until next year or the holidays. He seemed a little disappointed but wanted my number anyway so I gave it to him. 5 days later he texts me and that began the start of our texting relationship. It seems that I'm the one starting the conversation. He'll sometimes text me good morning pretty lady & he has so far sent 2 pics. Sometimes we can hold a conversations, but they mostly consist of good mornings & talking about what we did but I'm normally left hanging. We've tried talking to each other on the phone, but that don't go so well since his phone cut off & he works well into the night. The most I have gone without texting him is four days & then I do because I don't want him to think I've lost interest or something like that. He works two jobs & doesn't get off until 2 or 4 pm & from 11/12 midnight. I understand he is tired & when he gets down time, he wants to rest but I'm trying to figure out where is this going & how does he feel. Is he comfortable with me texting first or does he seem just uninterested. I have half a mind to call him next week (I'm testing out to see if he'll text) & see whats up. I been told if I call & he doesn't pick up, leave a mssg & he doesn't call back, move on. A month is a short time, I get patience but we are both starting school soon (not the same college) & Im not there obviously which hinders starting a relationship or to an extend a friendship. Any advice will help me so thanks in advance. He is 23/24 & I am 19.
Ami1uwant Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 It sounds as if you two havent dated at all. I wouldnt call this a relationship. If you are the one initiating always and he isnt then you are wasting your time. move on.
Author Mali25 Posted July 29, 2012 Author Posted July 29, 2012 Ami1uwant: I didn't say we were in a relationship, I said when he text me first, that was the start of our TEXTING relationship, i.e communication. If he wanted to start something, Im not there. A friend relationship would would be okay. Thanks for replying!
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