Ca8518 Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 I met someone OLD 5 weeks ago and we had an immediate connection. We soon spent our free time together and spent most nights over each other's places. He was very supportive of my past and wanted to help me move past my last relationship which was emotionally abusive. He had me hang out with his friends and family on a regular basis and even talked about how he thought he would marry me and how lucky he was to find me. We are both early thirties and he has only had one relationship and it lasted a few months. Out of the blue he tells me he wants to end things even though I make him happy because he doesn't feel like we will be together "down the road". I am so confused and hurt and have no idea what happened. Has anyone experienced this? I know we moved fast for a short period of time but he was pushing me. Then when he had me committed, he no longer wants a relationship? When we broke up he told me he has "romantic" feelings for me, is still attracted to me, thinks I am a great girlfriend, believes we could have a good life together, and I still mean a lot to him but then says to move on and he knows I will be with other people but he wants me to be happy and that it won't work out for us and it's over....will he ever change his mind or realize he made a mistake? Will I ever hear from him again?
Author Ca8518 Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 Thank you. I don't know if there was too much pressure starting to build up and he became scared or if hes just trying to appease me during the breakup. He said if I didn't mean so much to him that he would shut me off (not answer questions, texts, etc.) but he can't. His family already started the marriage and baby jokes and it seemed to really freak him out. We have not talked in a few days. You are right though, I want someone who knows they want to be with me and will make it happen. I'm just confused and lost though...we were really happy, I want him back and don't understand this at all.
Author Ca8518 Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 Anyone that has insight or advice, it is much appreciated!!
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