smint Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Hi people,I posted here before,ex boyfriend(my first)left me after 7 yrs of relationship,blaming me for some stupid reasons(probably to justify himself),he left me by the phone,and I was chasing him for 5 weeks,during that time he treated me like a crap,he just cut off all contact,when I caught him on the phone,he was cruel... I came two times to his door,first time he slammed the door in my face,but later let me in and was cruel,but he kept telling me that "we will stay friends although I have destroyed his life",and then he kept ignoring me again,then I came to his door once again and he told me"if you come once again,I am not going to let you in"!!! Then I went on NC,and in meantime I heard from friends that he has new girlfriend,and it is actual reason why he left me,although he later says when I told him that i know"she just accidentally appeared"!!! I was acting cool about it,and he was still selling me"friends"story.But when I called him for a walk,when he heard my voice,he hung up!!! Anyway...I was going through hell,my head was Hiroshima,I stopped contacting him at all,it's been 4,almost 5 months since BU.But what is happening right now,I received one mail from him,some jokes.Then I received txt message two weeks ago"how are you,what's up",then also on Facebook mail"how are you,what's up",and he liked one picture on my profile!!!That really upsets me!!!I didn't answer at all!!!I finally started some to say"normal life",and he is testing me,he wants to hurt me again,I dream about him!!!I found his pictures and I cried today!!! How to stay cool,he is destroying me!!!
KatZee Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 If you're working with Gmail, set up a filter so anything that comes from his address gets sent directly to the spam/trash folder. Delete/Block on Facebook. You can block up to 5 phone numbers on your cell phone for free if you're using Verizon as your carrier. Done. Don't sit around waiting for that shock of being contacted again. Make it so HE CAN'T. 1
Ruby65 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Sweetie, I agree -- you need to protect yourself. Block him on Facebook and if you can block him by phone and email. You need to look out for yourself and protect your feelings because this guy ISN'T acting in your best interests and it sounds like he's perfectly fine toying with you and causing you pain. 1
Author smint Posted July 25, 2012 Author Posted July 25, 2012 Yes,he is playing with me and that's really shocking for me!!!I am afraid not to meet him on the street,this is small place where we live,and he has some car which a lot of people have,or I am imagining every time when I see that car on the street I am a little bit afraid not to see him... I heard that his new relationship is not perfect,that girl has a child,and he is having problems with parents because of her,and she is using him to drive er everywhere,and I know who she is,they went together on one course before she got pregnant and married(now she is divorced),and she was telling him"take care of your girl friend(me then),I am going to kill you if you don't,today is so hard to find normal person"...
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