Jaf15 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I am a little over 3 months out of my 3 year relationship. She was my first everything, literally... I thought i was doing better, i was talking to this girl i meet, but i can just tell we arent going to work out and we dont click. Lately i have been having flashbacks of me and my ex and some of the sexual stuff.... Depressing and pathetic I know.. I will never break NC but this is horrible. I feel like this sh*t will never end, and i can guarentee you she probably hurt for a few weeks then got over it..fml
Chi townD Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Dude, 3 months for 3 YEARS! Is nothing yet for the healing process. It's going to take time. Yeah, I know, it sucks and it sucks bad. But you have to do things, keep busy. It does get better. I promise.
RogerWallace111 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I'm with you Jaf. 2 months out of a 3.5 year and I'm having super similar feelings. Felt pretty optimistic for the month after the first two weeks and prior to these last couple; gettin some positive reception from girls, exercising hard, stayin busy... but I'm back to having days where it's constantly on my mind and moments where, against all logic, the future seems dark and bleak.
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