without Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 With my ex I wasn't THAT attracted to his appearance nor with any guy I dated,except one that I could jump on him the moment I saw him. I mean I could literally feel the energy. Should it be always like that? Shouldn't I date anyone that isn't like that? Do you feel like that toward your partners?
brahmabull117 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I won't date a girl who is not at least close to me in appearance. I'm just not attracted enough and I'm always going to feel like I can do better That's probably part of the reason why I am as perma-single, I've had a few chances with girls who weren't all that attractive and turned it down
MrCastle Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I won't date a girl who is not at least close to me in appearance. I'm just not attracted enough and I'm always going to feel like I can do better That's probably part of the reason why I am as perma-single, I've had a few chances with girls who weren't all that attractive and turned it down If you could do better, then why aren't you doing better? Maybe you're overshooting your market value.
brahmabull117 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 If you could do better, then why aren't you doing better? Maybe you're overshooting your market value. Probably because I haven't done nearly enough in terms of getting numbers and asking out girls on dates who are at least close to me in attractiveness
Chunky Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Looks aren't everything. I've known pretty girls with rotten personalities that make them seem ugly and I've known average girls with wonderful personalities that make them prettier. Don't judge a book by its cover, you may miss out on a great girlfriend.
kaylan Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I need that intense chemistry. The reason I felt such chemistry with my ex, is that our personalities super clicked the moment we met. And it didnt hurt that she had a nice little body too =D So in my opinion initial attraction is very important.
somedude81 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 With my ex I wasn't THAT attracted to his appearance nor with any guy I dated,except one that I could jump on him the moment I saw him. I mean I could literally feel the energy. Should it be always like that? Shouldn't I date anyone that isn't like that? Are you talking about strictly physical? Why are you no longer dating that guy?
utterer of lies Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I could jump on him the moment I saw him. I mean I could literally feel the energy. Should it be always like that? Yes. Shouldn't I date anyone that isn't like that? You can date them, but it won't be worth it. In the end, everyone needs that 'magic' or 'chemistry', at least at the beginning.
USMCHokie Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Simple surface trait theory...of course, you'd ideally want sparks to fly, but most people are looking for just enough attraction to satisfy the binary test...
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 With my ex I wasn't THAT attracted to his appearance nor with any guy I dated,except one that I could jump on him the moment I saw him. I mean I could literally feel the energy. Should it be always like that? Shouldn't I date anyone that isn't like that? Do you feel like that toward your partners? Whatever... People are way too picky. I saw a random, average woman sitting on a bench today and she was wearing shorts and I could see her legs. She had nice, tan legs. That was enough for me. I could literally feel the energy...
Author without Posted July 25, 2012 Author Posted July 25, 2012 Are you talking about strictly physical? Why are you no longer dating that guy? Well he sort of turned me down, but now wants me again. Idk the deal with him. but I'm very much attracted to him. Whatever... People are way too picky. I saw a random, average woman sitting on a bench today and she was wearing shorts and I could see her legs. She had nice, tan legs. That was enough for me. I could literally feel the energy... LOL. I guess. I wasn't attracted to one part of him of course. AS a whole. Yes. You can date them, but it won't be worth it. In the end, everyone needs that 'magic' or 'chemistry', at least at the beginning. Hey utter how r u? Well I guess pretty much everyone says the initial attraction is important. So its not just me. Thanks.
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