Sox Man Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Had my lady friend tell me she needs space, so I went 7 days with no contact whatsoever, no email, Facebook, phone calls, no texts, nada, nothing. So I see her at work yesterday and she's all flirty, asks me out with friends. I turned her down cold. So, this morning I went to our old running spot,thinking she's working today and she was getting in her car after her run. So she comes up to me and hugs me and wipes her sweat all over me( good sign?). Anyway, she asks me to go to the movies. I think my biggest mistake before was being too available. I did turn her down last night. So, what's my next move? I don't do group dates, and I'm afraid one of her girlfriends may come too. Do I turn her down again or what.
phineas Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 This is your GF? "I need space" almost always means there is someone else. If she's coming around after a week it's because things didn't work out with the other guy.
InJest Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Turn her down again, and keep up what you're doing. When you decline, tell her that you'd be open to dating again, but only if she's serious about it. No taking things slow or any of that garbage, and she better be having sex with you right off the bat. Truthfully though, you're right. You were too available before. You need to start seeing other women, and don't stop seeing other women until this girl demands to be your g/f again.
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