Pod81 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Hey guys, so I ran into my ex-ex (2 girlfriends ago) for the first time in about 2 years at a work conference. Totally indifferent towards her, and I'm pretty sure she's indifferent also because she's engaged now. We even had a decent short conversation and it wasn't really awkward. So, she added me on facebook just now and "liked" a photo of me and my most current ex. I'm thinking about defriending her again because I don't want her to sabotage the NC that I have going with my current ex. I'm not quite sure she knows I'm not with her anymore, but I don't want to take that risk. What do you think?
k100danny Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Hmm well if you are indifferent toward her and feel friendly toward her there is no point in defriending her as i don't see what effect she will have on you breaking no contact. It's nice when you can be friends with an ex and if she asks just explain you aren't together anymore.
Author Pod81 Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 It's just awkward if my current ex sees that my ex-ex liked one of our old coupley photos. Guess I'll just let her know we're no longer together and to not like photos with me and the current ex.
Sheppy99 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I wouldn't worry about putting out fires until they actually start man but that's just me.
g450 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 So if you claim to be indiferent too her then why the hell did you befriend her on FB in the first place? Sounds to me like you like drama. The solution is so simple it will hit you over the head. Block ALL exes. Simple huh?
steveblack Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Dude it doesn't matter. She liked the photo, she was being nice. Your ex might think your messing around with her. But who cares either way. You NC has nothing to do with other people on facebook. I had a picture taken right before we broke up (like a day) and someone commented a week later, aww you guys are so cute. Who cares.
Author Pod81 Posted July 25, 2012 Author Posted July 25, 2012 (edited) As it turns out, it's likely a stupid Facebook glitch. How else would those notifications pop up literally right after I accepted the friend request? Apparently, she liked it a while back right before defriending me and it somehow didn't show up on my notifications until now. False alarm. I freaked out for absolutely no reason. Edited July 25, 2012 by Pod81
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