henderson14 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 When women are in the dating stages with guys, how much do they share with each other? Do they share everything like details about the guy, their feelings about him, how good they are in bed? I know with my guy friends we don't talk about much at all. Usually it just about if we are sleeping together yet and a general "how things are going."
dreamingoftigers Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Everything, her friends know how large your tool is and if you know how to use it. Yeah, it's true, HOWEVER that really, in general isn't a big deal to us. There's a funny girl code out there, I've noticed this among friends/acquaintances. If she really likes you, then she'll talk about how big it is, and really if she likes you the sex will be good for her anyways. If she ends up hating your guts, she'll mention it either being small or that you sucked in bed. If there are no hard feelings, she'll just be honest. This tends to apply to younger/less mature women. The older she gets the more she'll just be honest. Plus she'll be much less likely to mention size or performance at all, because as we get older we just don't care as much to share.
ScienceGal Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I have one good female friend who I tell just about everything to.
MrCastle Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Everything you say and do to a girl, her friends will know about. Everything. 1
Silly_Girl Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Agreed. Anything and/or everything. That fades over time, as you become established as a couple. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 This might be the first concensus on LS regarding gender relations! 2
The Way I Am Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I hardly tell my girlfriends anything. If they do something really sweet or noteworthy, I'll tell. Or how much I like him. It seems to me poor taste to share details of intimate moments.
dreamingoftigers Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I hardly tell my girlfriends anything. If they do something really sweet or noteworthy, I'll tell. Or how much I like him. It seems to me poor taste to share details of intimate moments. Arg. So close. Then someone with "privacy," "boundaries," and "class" comes along.
It's Just Me Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I only share with a few close girlfriends, only because they've heard all my other horror stories. That said, I don't go into intimate detail about every single thing. The grin on my face usually says it all, anyway.
The Way I Am Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Arg. So close. Then someone with "privacy," "boundaries," and "class" comes along. I ruin everything.
confused_woman1 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 In the beginning stages, we tell our girlfriends just about everything that happens, but once it starts to get more intimate and established, we tell them less.
Ruby Slippers Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Agreed. Anything and/or everything. That fades over time, as you become established as a couple. Yeah, you need a good friend to talk it through with so she can give a second opinion on the guy, and anything weird that pops up early on. It's good to have someone to call you on your BS obsessing, those times when you can convince yourself of all kinds of silliness, if you consider the matter on your own. But it's a good thing. The more I like a guy, the more I talk about him to my friends. My closest friend was excited when I started gushing about the guy I'm seeing now - because I haven't really gushed like that in... forever. And now I'm having doubts about whether we're a good match - and I know that if I cut him loose, she'll be one of the first to get an earful about why. Lucky girl. haha
FitChick Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 When I was in my twenties, I'd tell everything. Now I consider it disloyal to gossip about the more intimate details. I don't like men gossiping about me either. I think with maturity comes discretion.
SouthernDamsel Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I will also skew the numbers a bit because I have never shared details of an intimate nature with friends. Sorry, Tiger dreamer!!!
mesmerized Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Depends on the women. In my experience the majority of women are willing to share, specially in the early stages of dating. Some women don't talk about it at all and some only do when they are asked. My girl friends usually tell me a lot because I'm great to share stuff with.
Forever Silent Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Wikipedia has nothing on the amount information your girlfriend's friends have about you. 1
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