FearfulFuture Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Hi LS members. I could really use some help and advice from people who understand or who have experienced what im currently going through. My ex of 4.5 years broke up with me 5 months ago and like everyone else here, i was hurt bad. I was a total mess the first 2 months but slowly began to pull myself together to a point where i was feeling ok, not great but ok. I had done the whole no contact thing and it was doing me good until she reached out about 3 weeks ago with messages stating she missed me, regretted things and had made a big mistake. Obviously this was what i had been dreaming of and we met up for the first time in 3 months where she continued to tell me how she wanted to get back together. Over the next 2 weeks we saw each other several times and just hung out doing different things, it was amazing, just how i dreamed it would be. I wasn't pressing for anything, didn't try and rush things and was happy with what we had. This last week however we haven't had any communication at all and it was eating me up. I couldn't take it anymore so contacted her first (the only time i have initiated). We started talking and i asked if we could meet, she was acting distant and then told me that she wasn't sure what she wants and doesn't want to lead me on, WTF? She was the one who came back telling me she made a mistake and wanted to reconcile now suddenly she doesn't want to lead me on, how confusing is that? I have read a few gigs threads and the stages and they all seem to make sense regarding my situation. I would like to know what stage she is at now though (if there is such a thing), what should i do and just exactly is this game my ex is playing? I wasn't too available, didn't jump straight to her calls and played it pretty casual but now im totally lost again and feel heart broken all over. Anyone else able to shed some light on this subject, what do i do now? Thanks for reading and i appreciate any advice people can give.
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