Pizwilly Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 My ex fiancé and I have been living apart and broken up for over a month now. We argued over fairness of expectations of his kids compared to mine....he is extremely insecure because he used to weigh almost 400 pounds. I should've know things were too good to be true - slowly I figured out that I was enabling him with taking pictures where I was and it got to the point where I got written up at work because I had to answer my phone or face the wrath of being called a cheating whore. He has anger issues, drove his ex of the road, and I'm a Freaking idiot....I thought I could help him and prove that everyone is different and I only made a bigger insecure monster....I know he's manipulative....he knows the buttons to push so what the hell is wrong with me? Why do I keep getting sucked into his crap? One minute he apologizes for sending me a picture of his ex telling me he's with her then texts me saying if I go out with my friends he hopes I die in a car crash.... 4 minutes later..... Why am I hurting him on purpose...and I'm a whore! I am off for the summer and have not step foot in a bar, club, or restaurant without my kids - but he makes up lies in his head....I know he needs help and I've called the police to let them know and I've changed my locks and I feel like the only way to make him stop is to go back....he threatened if I file a restraining order he will call my job and try to get me fired. He's offered to go to therapy if I go back to him.....so I am hoping the therapist will help me get out..... Ive tried blocking his number and the texts still get through, he uses someones phone, he drives by my house , beats on my door and it's easier to give in than to fight this.....what else can I do?
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