avi_28 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 and some how he isn't fessing up to ANYTHING told me to shut the f*ck up while he started playing his xbox and then asked me if id be e interested in bringing someone else into our relationship I'm all but heart broken I feel like I can't breath and yeah to top it he isn't mad bc in his words "now I know the feelings the girls I dated felt" I mean is he really serious .... so I guess this means I faulsy accused him for now reason unless he is remaining innocent till the end... I don't knw if he will sleep in the spare room etc...all he told is to STFU while I stood there crying...for atleast an hr/half got up came in room and here I am Come tmmrw I hv to figure out my deposit and furniture is so I can just leave
Gulf-Delta Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 So, you broke up with him, and he got pissy and seemed ok with it? Is that's what happening?
Author avi_28 Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 So, you broke up with him, and he got pissy and seemed ok with it? Is that's what happening? Thats exactly what happen... I walked out a min ago to grab my purse and he said sm crap to me I started crying and he laughed </3
Gulf-Delta Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Thats exactly what happen... I walked out a min ago to grab my purse and he said sm crap to me I started crying and he laughed </3 Well, **** him then. He's sounds like a piece of **** and you're doing the right thing by getting out. Cut him off completely. Don't talk to him, don't see him, don't answer his calls or texts. Just ****ing leave.
ihateslowjams Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I agree, leave and never look back. He's not worth your tears after what he just did.
Gulf-Delta Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I agree, leave and never look back. He's not worth your tears after what he just did. Not what he just did...I feel like this probably isn't the first time he's been a cunt. He was probably treating her like crap for a while...she made the right decision to live.
ihateslowjams Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 true, but what i meant was this should have been the FINAL straw and there should be no doubt in what actions to take after
CopingGal Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Hi Avi, Sorry that happened. Leave and don't look back. I too dated a bastard. The best thing you can do is leave, cut off communication, and never look back.
hinatticus Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Not what he just did...I feel like this probably isn't the first time he's been a cunt. He was probably treating her like crap for a while...she made the right decision to live. You can use the word cunt? I thought would've been bleeped out. Anyway, ya leave that cunt. He's being a cunt.
Snakechammah Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 You were crying and he laughed?? Ooooh... I can feel my blood boiling... what a jerk. Good riddance! You deserve much better than him. Look at it as time served and now you're finally free. Go out there and dance your worries away. It's time for a better life. Good luck! 1
Author avi_28 Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 I couldn't sleep last night I just cried and felt sick...when I finally DID fall asleep he woke me up to ask me where his other controller was and I just looked at him and laid my head back down... he found his controller and eh..had to hv been no later than 430am (all this happened around 10pm last night) When i got up about 2 hrs ago he was still playing his game. His sister lives next door to us so once I see her by herself I am going to go talk with her about my deposit...see if she can give me half back - He and I were suppose to go with a longtime friend of his to go see Batman but I declined and now he is upset with me bc of that but I don't care...I can't just go about my day like he can knowing things are not right between us.. I mean if I told him I ran over someone he would just sit back say "OK" sarcastically and go about his day. Right now I feel like ripping him apart but it serves me no use bc I'm realizing I am only digging myself into a bigger hole if I dwell on whats to come within the next few days till I am gone. I am angry that I finally get a good job after hunting and accepting small p/t jobs after another to FINALLY get this better job and now this is happening... I know he is going to want to sit and talk with me but nothing more can be said or done now... He talks when he wants to talk...if I force him into talking with me it get's us no where but him being a baby and staying quiet till he's ready.. How the F*ck did all these women put up with him... fml back in bed...he'll be gone for a few hrs so im just going to wait for his sister to text me back to when she can go out for a bit so I can talk with her.
Author avi_28 Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 I got married to my h.s sweetheart and we were together for 10 yrs then divorced...When we both knew it was over it was a breath of fresh air we had not one thing bad to say about each other. Why does THIS break up feel like I've been punched in the stomach???
tryingtofindmyway24 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I feel ur pain I am confused on if I should move out and leave my bf of 1.5yrs bcuz we are just clashing so much. My bf does the same thing when I cry he does not confront me and if I go talk to him he acts as though my passion/anger of tears in eyes does not bother him or he laughs at me and calls me crazy. Then he will go to say I do not love him. He sits there playing his xbox for hours and acts like everything is ok. I sit in my room he goes to his and laugh gets on facebook and talks to other girls. He even told me that I dont deserve him and that I he wont say anything to me for the rest of the year unless it is about the bills. I dont want to live with him still after this and I dont knw if I should move-out becuz I love him so much and maybe things will get better between us. Also if I move out he cannot afford to live here on his on bcuz he does not make that much money, which is why I dont know what to do. Good luck keep me posted.
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