Eternal Sunshine Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I would just go with the flow T. Don't over-complicate things. It would be cool to take your friend to his party...you would automatically have another person to talk to. 1
Author tigressA Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 I might go to the party. Told my friend about it and she said she may want to go. I'm leaving it entirely up to her. I'm reminded right now of a thread...I'm not going to look it up...something about a guy texting instead of calling like he said he would. Yeah, that just happened to me. "How's it going?" That sh*t isn't going to fly with me. No response. 1
KungFuJoe Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Ahhh Tigress. Sounds like you're already hooked on this guy. . Might as well just admit it. 2
kaylan Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 (edited) I heard from him today, via text. I responded about a couple hours later letting him know I was out, asked him to call me tomorrow, but he in turn told me to call him. I'll think about it. He wants me to pursue him, I know it. The amount of contact has dwindled somewhat since before the break, when he admitted to not really being into me because I came off like I wasn't into him. And it's true, I didn't. I still don't, much. Yet. I think he comes off as requiring a lot of reassurance. He eats up any compliment I give him. He loves attention. And he may feel he doesn't get 'enough' attention from me. Not sure if I could handle that sort of dynamic, even if I were really, really into someone. Id want you to pursue to if you were the one who wasnt acting that into me in the first place outside of sex.That's definitely a Leo thing. They all think they're the King/Queen and expect you to be the fawning sycophant. Which can get really exhausting since I spend most of my day telling myself (and anyone else who'll listen) how awesome I am. . . . I disagree. Horoscopes are bunk imo. His behavior is a product of her not acting as into him as he has since the beginning. Remember hes the one who initially backed off because he correctly pegged that she wasnt into it.Perhaps but I would never respond to a text with a 'call me tomorrow', it's rude. I would call rather than request something like that This. This guys doing nothing wrong. You know he likes you, and you treat him like a piece of meat...and then you want to beg him as insecure and in need of attention and chasing. Uhhhh, nope...he just wants a girl whos on the same wavelength as he is. If a girl I worked with, who I was seeing, told me to just call her tomorrow after I texted her...id be very put off. Id expect anyone to back off and make that person chase them after that.I'd go to the party, great info gathering opportunity based on how you are treated by him and friends. This as well. Go mingle and meet new people. Meet his friends and have fun. Everyones a stranger before they are a friend. Edited July 26, 2012 by kaylan 1
Author tigressA Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 He came through in the clutch and called about a half hour after he sent that text. We talked for over three hours. I feel myself starting to go a little stupid now and wondering when I'll see him again.
Author tigressA Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 He called again last night and we had an even longer conversation. He asked me some questions that seemed rather pointed--where do I see 'this' going, how am I feeling about 'this', am I comfortable with him, if I'm interested in/seeing anyone else. My answers: I'm having fun getting to know him. As for where it's going, I don't know, just taking it day by day. Yes, I'm comfortable with him. No, I'm not interested in anyone else, but if that changes I'll let him know, and I expect the same on his end. He says he isn't seeing anyone else, so that works for me. I don't know why he keeps bringing this stuff up. Isn't that my job? :laugh: Anyway, seems to be going well. I can feel myself loosening up. I sang on the phone :laugh: And we have plans for Thursday. First time I'll see him in over a week but we've both been busy, and he's kept in regular contact. 2
EasyHeart Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I'm not interested in anyone else, but if that changes I'll let him know, and I expect the same on his end. He says he isn't seeing anyone else, so that works for me. I don't know why he keeps bringing this stuff up. Isn't that my job? :laugh:Because you have his little brain in a tizzy. Now let him chase you. He needs to think he's in charge, even if we all know that he's not. 2
Star Gazer Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 You liiiiiike him. Go with it. Try not to analyze. To that end, don't post about it here. 4
mickleb Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 your a woman. you can get laid anytime you want. u can be the most boring personality and still get laid. if you were a guy you would get props for getting laid bc men have to be confident, charismatic, defy the odds, chase, keep them on their toes, not be too needy and than they might get a number. you reporting you getting laid is like ivanka trump saying she bought herself a diamond necklace. Poor imperfekt. Must be awful being you. He called again last night and we had an even longer conversation. He asked me some questions that seemed rather pointed--where do I see 'this' going, how am I feeling about 'this', am I comfortable with him, if I'm interested in/seeing anyone else. My answers: I'm having fun getting to know him. As for where it's going, I don't know, just taking it day by day. Yes, I'm comfortable with him. No, I'm not interested in anyone else, but if that changes I'll let him know, and I expect the same on his end. He says he isn't seeing anyone else, so that works for me. I don't know why he keeps bringing this stuff up. Isn't that my job? :laugh: Anyway, seems to be going well. I can feel myself loosening up. I sang on the phone :laugh: And we have plans for Thursday. First time I'll see him in over a week but we've both been busy, and he's kept in regular contact. I gotta say, Tigress, I don't know why you engage with this guy, then laugh behind his back on this forum. Do you respect him, or not?
SmileFace Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 You liiiiiike him. Go with it. Try not to analyze. To that end, don't post about it here. This tenfold
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Poor imperfekt. Must be awful being you. And BORING! 2
EasyHeart Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 You liiiiiike him. Go with it. Try not to analyze. To that end, don't post about it here. THAT'S JUST CRAZY-TALK!!! Post away, T, post away.
Author tigressA Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 THAT'S JUST CRAZY-TALK!!! Post away, T, post away. I've never been shy about posting personal stuff here, that's for sure. But it wouldn't hurt to try something different. Last post about this for awhile: Yes, yes, I liiiiiiiiike him. I admit it. Happy now?! :laugh:
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