tigressA Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 It's a charm. After two quick bouts of awkward sex that led to going our separate ways for a couple of weeks, I met up with the guy I didn't find very interesting on Friday. I don't know what happened in the time that went by without seeing or talking (much) to him, but last night and this morning/afternoon went almost unbelievably well. I had so much fun with him. And yes, the sex was HOT. 2
ThaWholigan Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Ahh, the magnificent, unpredictable nature of life . Happy Orgasm Day 1
kaylan Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Told you OP. Practice makes perfect. I always believe that if theres enough initial chemistry there (which you guys had tons of), that it can make for some great sex once you figure each others bodies out. So besides the sex, is he still boring and dull? Still not bf material? 1
veggirl Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 ...why? You don't even like this guy! I feel like you can't be alone or something. 1
xpaperxcutx Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Wait is thiz office boy? I haven't followed Ts threads in a while.
ThaWholigan Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Told you OP. Practice makes perfect. I always believe that if theres enough initial chemistry there (which you guys had tons of), that it can make for some great sex once you figure each others bodies out. So besides the sex, is he still boring and dull? Still not bf material? Funnily enough, you were right from the beginning 1
veggirl Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 ...am I the only one who remembers the threads about how unlikable he was and how she didn't enjoy his company? I am so confused. 5
Author tigressA Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 Told you OP. Practice makes perfect. So besides the sex, is he still boring and dull? Still not bf material? Good question. I'm actually starting to like him. He showed more of himself this time around and he was, I daresay, interesting. He had me laughing a lot. When we were sleeping we 'took turns' snuggling up against each other. Having his arms around me felt nice. I don't really know where I want this to go. I'm just enjoying it. Paper--no, not office guy. He friendzoned me, got fired two months ago and moved back home. Haven't seen him since, but we still talk every so often.
kaylan Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Dont let good sex cloud your mind. Which I think it might. I totally have started to fall for girls because the chemistry was intense, even though in hindsight it was obvious why things didnt work. Keep this is mind. Dont let the sexy times make you think hes compatible as a boyfriend. Make sure you actually click with him on that level. Good luck. 7
ThaWholigan Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 ...am I the only one who remembers the threads about how unlikable he was and how she didn't enjoy his company? I am so confused. I think it was a case of this guy slightly misrepresenting himself in order to impress Tigress, but came off as vague whereas Tigress is, to use one of my favorite phrases, someone who doesn't beat around the bush. Which I'm sure she respects more in guys to an extent. It appears that this guy has revealed himself a little more, much to Tigress' delight. That's why I always say: Never beat around the bush 3
xpaperxcutx Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Ah okay. Well sex is sex until you want something more serious. Can't deny your carnal pleasures so jwust make the most of it. 1
Author tigressA Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 Dont let good sex cloud your mind. Which I think it might. I totally have started to fall for girls because the chemistry was intense, even though in hindsight it was obvious why things didnt work. Keep this is mind. Dont let the sexy times make you think hes compatible as a boyfriend. Make sure you actually click with him on that level. Good luck. Oh, good sex has definitely clouded my mind before. My ex-ex is fantastic evidence of that. I don't know if I want a boyfriend, let alone him as a boyfriend. I'm just having fun. If it goes there, it goes there. If it doesn't, it doesn't. 1
Forever Learning Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 And yes, the sex was HOT. So happy for you!!!! Yum yum yum.
Author tigressA Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 And it's even funnier that it went so well because at the last minute I had seriously thought of cancelling and staying home. I had a crappy week at work, and I wasn't sure it'd be worth it, seeing someone who I had thought was dull, who I'd had awkward sex with. Turned out to be just what I needed.
Author tigressA Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 (edited) I heard from him today, via text. I responded about a couple hours later letting him know I was out, asked him to call me tomorrow, but he in turn told me to call him. I'll think about it. He wants me to pursue him, I know it. The amount of contact has dwindled somewhat since before the break, when he admitted to not really being into me because I came off like I wasn't into him. And it's true, I didn't. I still don't, much. Yet. I think he comes off as requiring a lot of reassurance. He eats up any compliment I give him. He loves attention. And he may feel he doesn't get 'enough' attention from me. Not sure if I could handle that sort of dynamic, even if I were really, really into someone. Edited July 24, 2012 by tigressA
EasyHeart Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I think he comes off as requiring a lot of reassurance. He eats up any compliment I give him. He loves attention. And he may feel he doesn't get 'enough' attention from me. Not sure if I could handle that sort of dynamic, even if I were really, really into someone.That's definitely a Leo thing. They all think they're the King/Queen and expect you to be the fawning sycophant. Which can get really exhausting since I spend most of my day telling myself (and anyone else who'll listen) how awesome I am. . . . 1
madjac74 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 He eats up any compliment I give him. Who doesn't do that? Compliments are delicious! Keep them coming and don't be stingy with the rolls!
Emilia Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I heard from him today, via text. I responded about a couple hours later letting him know I was out, asked him to call me tomorrow, but he in turn told me to call him. I'll think about it. He wants me to pursue him, I know it. The amount of contact has dwindled somewhat since before the break, when he admitted to not really being into me because I came off like I wasn't into him. And it's true, I didn't. I still don't, much. Yet. I think he comes off as requiring a lot of reassurance. He eats up any compliment I give him. He loves attention. And he may feel he doesn't get 'enough' attention from me. Not sure if I could handle that sort of dynamic, even if I were really, really into someone. Perhaps but I would never respond to a text with a 'call me tomorrow', it's rude. I would call rather than request something like that
Stellar Wench Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 It's a charm. After two quick bouts of awkward sex that led to going our separate ways for a couple of weeks, I met up with the guy I didn't find very interesting on Friday. I don't know what happened in the time that went by without seeing or talking (much) to him, but last night and this morning/afternoon went almost unbelievably well. I had so much fun with him. And yes, the sex was HOT. Why are you having sex with men you don't find interesting?
Author tigressA Posted July 25, 2012 Author Posted July 25, 2012 Called him and we talked for a bit. I don't think I'll be seeing him until sometime next week as our schedules are pretty conflicting until then, but that's okay. He invited me to this big party he and his housemates are having next weekend but one of my friends is driving up to see me then. I could probably bring her along but I feel like I'd rather not go to this party where he'll be the only other person I know, as that would likely open up a big can of awkwardness.
mickleb Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 This is being over-thought. Hang out with him if it's convenient for you both and you both want to. Call each other in the same way. Stop caring so much. There is some chemistry there but only time will tell if there's enough. Que sera.
dasein Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I'd go to the party, great info gathering opportunity based on how you are treated by him and friends.
Author tigressA Posted July 25, 2012 Author Posted July 25, 2012 I'd go to the party, great info gathering opportunity based on how you are treated by him and friends. Hm. I'll think about it, but I likely still won't go because my friend is visiting me that weekend. Being perfectly honest...I don't really want him meeting any of my friends anytime soon. And I feel the same way about meeting his friends/housemates. When I went to see him this last time, we did run into a friend of his and that went over well enough.
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