Author Tree_Salmon Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 You have a point. At this point i dont really want to talk to her simply because it just feels like a bother. I think im moving way too quickly to stunt my growth. I wasn't trying to say 1 year is a short period of time. It is all relative like you said but i mean he's lucky it ended now and not 4 years down the road. It gets much worse the longer you're in it. letting go can be almost impossible at some point 1
Kovalchoke Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Im just curious as to when the horrible stuff she did to me will register with her... I know i shouldnt be waiting on it
ladyabstrused Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Good luck, my dear friend Tree. You've got a good heart and a good head on your shoulders. You know what she wants and what she's doing to you. And you know better not to mess with that..as it will only leave you more hurt or unhappiness. Hope things look up for you soon. Kovalchoke, one day you will get tired of wondering about it. It's been a bit over 2 months since my break up with my ex of close to 5 years. It's exhausting trying to figure out why they were the way they were and why they did such things. But like you, I'm happier now indeed. Good luck to you on your healing and hope that you'll find someone good who will be worth your time and effort.
weallfalldown Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Just ignore her..imo...she is taking the piss by even mentioning that rebound crap!
Sugarkane Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Why should we care? Was she there for you after the breakup? No she was sleeping with someone else soon wasn't she? I'm so sick of most dumpers playing victim. She didn't care when you were heart broken. 2
robaday Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 What she is doing is wrong on so many levels, she might not mean any harm but its lacking in total self awareness. Shes really disrespecting her new man as well- id maybe tell her that - i.e. its not fair on you or her current partner to be talking to you about these issues, and tell her to focus on those two and wish her the best. Seriously, she has absolutely zero self awareness here. 2
Author Tree_Salmon Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 Why should we care? Was she there for you after the breakup? No she was sleeping with someone else soon wasn't she? I'm so sick of most dumpers playing victim. She didn't care when you were heart broken. Yeah, shes the king of playing victim. You're right she deserves no sympathy. I actually ran into her last week and she now has expressed that it was a big event for her. She cant stop thinking about me. Who knows how true any of it is. But I'm trying to keep away. 1
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