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One week of nc an one mention of her name and i fall apart

Brokendude

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Been working out, working hard, focusing on school and just simply doin everything i can to take my mind of her, i felt good about nc and i thought i was doing well, this girl who didnt kno my girlfriend and i broke up asked if i was joining her and my gf for lunch, it was seriously an honest mistake and she had no idea... Just the fact that i kno shes out there somewhere moving on kills me... And ive been doin so well an one mention of her name knocks me down completely, i feel so helpless and oerwhelmed at work right now, i hate that i have no power over these....please someone knock some sense in me, rt now no matter wht self motivation i do i cant get out of thia sinking feeling

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How do i get her off this stupid pedestal!!!

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Just breathe dude...dont be too hard on yourself. It will only take you down. Just try to accept it.

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Trust me man....We've all been there! I crumble if I hear my ex's name too. BUT I thrive in knowing that I would have fought til the end for this man, and he was unwilling to do the same for me. I know what kind of love I have to offer...And that makes me proud of WHO I AM. Don't be so quick to blame yourself because one person didn't see how amazing you are. You seem like such a great guy; don't forget that.

 

Something I recently learned that may help...Find happiness in yourself. Let others be a part of it, not completely be it. I felt so lost without him, and now I'm slowly learning to stand on my own two feet. I think we depend on others to makes us happy, so ultimately, we have to find our own happiness within ourselves. Are you happy with who you are? Are you proud of the man you are? If not, work on those... those who deserve and who will love you unconditionally will follow, and love you despite of those flaws. I used to think, "God, I'd rather fight til my last breath rather than start all over again." Well.... I did, and now I have to start all over.

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