No contact im sticking to it from now on. ignoring the strong urges.

[zanzi]

Its. So. hard. I used to call him right about this time of night.

Am gritting my teeth and getting through it.

I ended up embarressing myself, this evening. I showed up at my old fwb's house. My so called "freinds" had all ditched me and I wanted someone to hang out with. :/ grim indeed.

 

But at least I haven't called him. My eyes are actually watering with the effort of resisting the strong urge I have to call. I am gritting my teeth.

 

Isn't it hard that now that it's over, Iv'e realised how much goodness and happiness he gave to my life? There were hard times, but now I'm alone I have more of an appreciation of other people. I realize I need them in my life after all. Freinds and family. Even though they are faulted.

 

Dont get me wrong, I miss him so much. But what good is pestering him when he doesnt want to know. I don't want it to be over for good, but if he does, nothing I say will do anything other then aggrivate him. I am hurting a lot. I suspect so is he. I will not call. I will not call....

[blue_jay_bird]

Good For you.

 

Remember, He is not fighting for you, he does not want to be with you. You are strong, beautiful, it is his lost. Get busy, don't wait around the phone. Take your bike out for a spin. Go to the beach, go to a book store. And leave the cell phone at home. I believe in you, and i don't even know you. But i can say that, everyone here is rooting for you.

[TheBetterPerson]

Resist all urges!

what i do is i make a calander and every day that goes by put a massive x in it to show your progress and by the end of a month or two you will notice how different you feel!

 

the more NC you give him the more he probably will contact you!

you will be surprised, guys want to know what your doing and curiosity will get the better of him!

 

dont dissapoint yourself by contacting him, you will only hurt yourself

[zanzi]

guess what. He wasn't curious about me at all.

He's already moved on in a short month.

Bumped into him yesterday after a month and two weeks nc and his is back with his babies mother.

Am in shock.

he was whiney when I questioned him before she came to get him, then she came along and he became cold to me.