Charlie25 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Hi everyone I just wanted to ask your advice on initiating contact with an ex (after NC has been broken). -A couple of weeks ago i called my ex, we chatted for a while, it was all good, nothing serious. She sounded very happy to hear from me. I ended the convo -Then two weeks of complete silence. I thought this was weird, seeing as we left on very good terms, and i thought my phone call would have been a sign that i was ok with communication -Last week i sent her a text, kind of a inside joke. Again she responded right away, and very positively, we texted a bit back and forth, it was her that kind of drove the "text convo" forward, again, i ended the convo Now my question is: Should i wait for her to initiate contact or is it ok for me to keep "pushing" (i don't mean blowing up her phone), but initiating contact. Assuming of course she does respond. Also, please don't say "go NC and heal :)", i have done that, and i think i am as healed as i can be, and i don't think NC would do anything for me at this point. I won't die if i don't get her back, and i know that is a real possibility, i guess i just want to see if there is a chance, and if there is not, i will leave it at that Thanks for reading
LostGirl11 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Just let her contact you now. She will if she wants to. Simple
Sameold Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 she's being nice by chatting to you, you're friends now. She sees you as her friend...urgh, why would you ever want that.
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