JWM Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Sup' guys! How are you all!? Need some help?! So I need some help building some attraction here with my ex (we split on good terms, and I want her back) It ended because I done the standard 'too needy' thing, but yeah, I won't be acting like that again any time soon, I've learnt my lesson. Anyways, haven't spoken to her for a while until a few days ago... (back up info: I'm a musician, and wrote her a song when we where dating, but never sent it to her cos we split, she was really keen to hear it, but I held back purposely to get her interest in it a little. It's a happy/uplifting track, not a sad soppy love song) Right I'm trying to be my normal fun going/little bit teasing self, to spark up some attraction again... Time between each message (1 day) Me: 'Remember I said I wrote you a song? Wanna hear it? You do, cos it's a hit. [download link]' Her: Aw that's really awesome! Thank you! Hope you're ok and well x Me: Awesome huh. It's gonna be released soon - don't worry, no one will ever know it was written for you. I won't tell if you don't x Her: Aw embarrassed of me now hey x And I'll reply tomorrow. So, any suggestions on a mind blowingly awesome thing to reply to that, that makes her want me that little bit more? I'm thinking a cocky 'How did you guess? x' then letting her have the last word and waiting till she contacts me. Or bringing up something funny/embarrassing she done in the past, in a flirty way. She seems to like a bit of a challenge/mystery in men, so that's what I am trying to do.... Ahhh, love - tis' a complex game eh (but fun) Cheers guys! JM
snug.bunny Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 It's very hard to rebuild attraction, once it's gone. I would think it would have to happen organically. Which means, being your authentic self. I'm sure others will disagree but as a female I can tell you, once the attraction is gone, it's dead in the water.
Author JWM Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 It's very hard to rebuild attraction, once it's gone. I would think it would have to happen organically. Which means, being your authentic self. I'm sure others will disagree but as a female I can tell you, once the attraction is gone, it's dead in the water. Hey, thanks for the reply! Attraction's not the issue in this really, It's just trying to get the ball rolling with some light flirty conversation, and to get her to initiate a meet up. Which yeah I admit is gonna be tricky, but fun trying huh!
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