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Dblock10 Established Member

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its been over a year now that me and my ex have been broken up. we broke up due to timing when we met 8 months later she left to travel so we broke up.

 

about 2 weeks ago we met up for the first time and everything was nice. still had feelings of which we both made known verbally. we still had chemistry.

 

she has now just moved to a different country and it could be up to a year. at first we stayed in close contact but now i am wondering what to do. in theory i can stay in contact with her if i want to through fb msg or arrange a Skype call.

 

..but she didn't want to get back together and is happy doing her thing being single and isn't looking for anything right now. its hard for me cause i have feelings for her but this feels like it is it.. last time there was hope as she was coming back so something could have happened. but this was the outcome, she's left again.

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I wouldn't wait for her no, she didn't suggest you to, didn't make any promises, she just went on living her life, so should you.

 

Not saying that you should drop off the surface of the earth, but I would definitively concentrate on my own life rather than waste another year for someone to decide I'm the one. If you weren't the one then, you probably won't be the one now or later.

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Svet74 Established Member

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yeah i mean she made it quite clear that she is enjoying the single life. you should do the same and move on

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yeah was thinking that. but its easier said than done isn't it..

 

I'm finding it hard that she doesn't feel the same, and that she isn't looking for a relationship when i know we are good together, sure we might meet again in the future but who really knows.

 

just seems strange that after that amount of time and space apart she comes back and we met and it was really great for her to leave again and just go about her life and not to want to make plans with me or anything like that.

 

its hard to accept.

 

i don't want to disappear off the face of the earth its just all hard to accept tbh

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