Here we go.. Again

July 16, 2012

Backstory ( well most recent event ) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/335943-a

So i sent her a message last night just for closure. Whether it was a mistake or not. Didnt pour my heart out or anything. She read it. I wake up today and my phone goes off. Its her. She texted me to say my letter didnt mean **** to her. And that she sees im talking to scumbags now. (she refers my friends to that). And that now shes never coming back. I told her i deleted one of them. She still was naming off people ive added, yet we arent friends on facebook. She said she took the promise ring off now, and ripped the pictures and letters of us off her wall. And that theyre gone and shes gone. She told me to take down everything/delete everything. Shes done. And that im pathetic. I asked her why is she even going through my facebook. Her response was F**k off, please stop talking to me. Then i found out she blocked me.

I dont get it. Why she even bothers going through my fb. She says to leave her alone and what not, yet she texts to fight with me and just me real mean and nasty. Ive been leaving her alone.

July 16, 2012

* she blocked me on fb. Argument was through text

July 16, 2012

Sounds like a psycho bitch.

Should make it that easier to stay away.

July 16, 2012

Sounds like a psycho bitch.

Should make it that easier to stay away.

Ive been trying to leave her alone. I keep taking a step back when she does things like this. I told her it isnt fair, im trying to leave her alone. Yet she texts me to argue. She said its completly fair and that she told me to move on with my life. Idk what the hell is going on. I decided to say, it could be cause your seeing someone else or something. She says it doesnt mean ive done anything, it means ive had it. Bye.

July 16, 2012

Dude, how old are you guys. You sound extremely young.

July 16, 2012

whoknows11, do yourself a favor and forget this peice of trash of a person. She is nasty, heartless and a b*tch! Stop beating yourself up for pesturing her, we have all done it.

I would delete all forms of contact with her, facebook, msn, text, everything. You need to let her go from your life cause you don't deserve such a miserable person in your life. I know your hurting, it's painful and you will go through many ups and downs emotionally, but in time you will gain perspective and realize her leaving was a blessing in disguise.

Don't erode any more of your self esteem and self respect by continuing any contact with her. You will only feel worse for it. Now it's time for you to process the loss, grieve it, and let go and move on. Think of you and your needs and take care of yourself and forget her completely! Cheers!

July 17, 2012

whoknows11, do yourself a favor and forget this peice of trash of a person. She is nasty, heartless and a b*tch! Stop beating yourself up for pesturing her, we have all done it.

I would delete all forms of contact with her, facebook, msn, text, everything. You need to let her go from your life cause you don't deserve such a miserable person in your life. I know your hurting, it's painful and you will go through many ups and downs emotionally, but in time you will gain perspective and realize her leaving was a blessing in disguise.

Don't erode any more of your self esteem and self respect by continuing any contact with her. You will only feel worse for it. Now it's time for you to process the loss, grieve it, and let go and move on. Think of you and your needs and take care of yourself and forget her completely! Cheers!

I did. I dont get it. She blocked me on fb. She fooled me. She kept me around and messed with me the whole time. She never was coming back. I was just filled with false hope. Ive been trying to leave her alone. It was her who initiated it twice. Just to fight with me and put me down. Back to square one. But i dont think she ll ever talk to me again if shes that sure. I guarantee it. All i just wanted to make things right. Never get the chance now. She got me, and then got away. I lose. But theres nothing i can do. Im doing nc still. I really dont have a choice. It isnt really no contact if shes never coming back.

July 17, 2012

dayum lol, she's getting pissed at you telling you to leave her alone which you have and she's getting all jealous at girls you've been adding. she's throwing a temper tantrum like a child. Tell yourself that this weekend you are going out and are on the prowl for a new fine young lady.

July 17, 2012

dayum lol, she's getting pissed at you telling you to leave her alone which you have and she's getting all jealous at girls you've been adding. she's throwing a temper tantrum like a child. Tell yourself that this weekend you are going out and are on the prowl for a new fine young lady.

I havent added any girls. I bet it wouldve been much worse. Just added my guy friends. One of them happened to be my best friend that i havent talked to in a long time. Ive been trying to leave her alone. It was her whos texted me to fight. And then keep reminding me shes done with me and to leave her alone. Its me that ends up being the bad guy. Idk why she bothers if shes moving on and wants nothing to do with me.

July 17, 2012

crazy girls like this only respect men who don't fall for their ****. you need to do the opposite of everything.

start talking to girls, do whatever the hell you want and don't erase any friends for anyone. why do you want to change who you are for some crazy bitch?

i bet you as soon as you put up resistance and stick up for yourself she wont stop bugging you.

I've dealt with one like that.

July 17, 2012

crazy girls like this only respect men who don't fall for their ****. you need to do the opposite of everything.

start talking to girls, do whatever the hell you want and don't erase any friends for anyone. why do you want to change who you are for some crazy bitch?

i bet you as soon as you put up resistance and stick up for yourself she wont stop bugging you.

I've dealt with one like that.

You could be right. But now she cant see anything i do because she blocked me. Im just going to leave her alone. Not going to pester her or anything. I dont think she ll contact me. Especially if i continue to leave her alone. I believe she could care less of what i do. Its just really confusing. She says each time lately shes done,not coming back, leave her alone, stop talking to her,etc. yet its been her talking to me. Her looking through my facebook.

July 17, 2012

You keep saying that she messaged you just to fight, you opened the line of communication by messaging first when she has asked for space. I don't see that as 'leaving her alone' as you say you are doing.

July 17, 2012

You keep saying that she messaged you just to fight, you opened the line of communication by messaging first when she has asked for space. I don't see that as 'leaving her alone' as you say you are doing.

Because we kept in contact after she decided to take a break. Well breakup. Shes the one who wanted to keep contact.we were fine talking. Did for about a month and a half. Had ups and downs. But then she brought up she needs space out of nowhere. That she said that when we broke up and i never gave it to her. She never said it though. She only mentioned not seeing eachother or talking on phone. I did pester her a bit after. But i gave her space mostly. Its her thats texting me starting a fight when ive been trying to leave her alone.

July 17, 2012

I just dont know whats going on. But i wont know. Im leaving her alone like ive been trying to do. Ill admit, it did really hurt when she said she ripped down our pictures and stuff off the wall and took off her promise ring. Idk if she said it cause she was mad or that she really did. I wish she didnt. But ill never know now.

July 18, 2012

[sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]I just wanted to offer a girls point of view. I don't know the back story of why you split or what you did as only one side of the story is on here.[/FONT][/sIZE]