whoknows11 Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Well, this is it. I heard from my ex. She claims ive been requesting her on fb. I havent. She put " stop requesting me. Just stop" i said i didnt request her and i havent been on. She said " im done. Just leave me alone. Please. " i said i will but i never requested her and ive left her alone. She said " ok.bye" then that was it. I lashed out on her shortly after. Never responded. And apologized after for doing that. Never responded. Ill admit, ive pestered her so much. Especially after she said she needs space a few days ago. I did it at the start of the breakup too. But im leaving her alone. I did too much and i wish i could take it back. Cause now i know she wants nothing to do with me. It hurts, ill admit i cried. Guys do at times. It just hurt alot. I just wish she didnt text me earlier. I was on day 3 of NC. I thought i was doing good.Im hopless now, but thank you to everyone thats helped on here. I tried my best in the situation. And waited for her. I dont see me ever hearing from her. I messed up.
Kovalchoke Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 hey, i know what it feels like. But when they say "i'm done" or "we're done" i'm sure they mean just that. If you love her then learn to let go and if she comes back then she will. For now just leave it and don't push it. It may seem like you have a bit more to do like ask around "what if's" but no, just don't do it. Take my advice because I did stuff like that not too long ago, and look where i am, my ex left me and is now with some douchebag but she won't listen to anyone. I can't do anything about it now. Yes, i'm sad and I think about her day to day, but the harsh reality is sometimes when you hold onto something that isn't there anymore, you'll end up losing yourself. it may seem like the world's over, but really it's just 1 girl. You need to take better care of yourself and just think, why are you still here if she's not?
Author whoknows11 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 hey, i know what it feels like. But when they say "i'm done" or "we're done" i'm sure they mean just that. If you love her then learn to let go and if she comes back then she will. For now just leave it and don't push it. It may seem like you have a bit more to do like ask around "what if's" but no, just don't do it. Take my advice because I did stuff like that not too long ago, and look where i am, my ex left me and is now with some douchebag but she won't listen to anyone. I can't do anything about it now. Yes, i'm sad and I think about her day to day, but the harsh reality is sometimes when you hold onto something that isn't there anymore, you'll end up losing yourself. it may seem like the world's over, but really it's just 1 girl. You need to take better care of yourself and just think, why are you still here if she's not? I agree, its possibly the best advice ive gotten on here. I was doing the best i could until she contacted me. I was happy to see her number show up until i read the text. Now im just back to day one. I just didnt want to end it on bad terms, cause i still wanted the chance to be with her after everything. But i ruined it completly. I wish i didnt, cause im just crushed. I keep picturing those texts and i feel so guilty.
Kovalchoke Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 How did you request her if you claim you didn't? The thing is, since she did the dumping, it's only right for her to leave you alone after such a cruel act. You said you were doing fine until she contacted you and this probably gave you false hope.
Author whoknows11 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 How did you request her if you claim you didn't? The thing is, since she did the dumping, it's only right for her to leave you alone after such a cruel act. You said you were doing fine until she contacted you and this probably gave you false hope. I requested her the first week after we broke up cause i deleted her. She kept it in her request box cause she told me. We stayed in contacted until recently about almost a week ago. Ill post the links to the back story if you or anyone care to read. Cause itd provide much insight on it
Author whoknows11 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/331815-needing-miracle-there-still-hope
Author whoknows11 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/335467-time-quit
Kovalchoke Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 You sound just like me. We broke up after a bunch of rumors and the dumbest reasons. She still hasn't apologized to this day and continues to save face. The proceeding weeks after i got dumped (over text after a year of dating -_-) I went crazy and just had to talk to everyone about it. Probably like 10 of my friends and even some people I just met. I couldn't stop because I felt like they would help me somehow. If I were you I'd lay low for a while and stay in NC while you're still fresh off the breakup. Maybe your ex needs sometime to herself. As for me...Mine hasn't talked to me since I took a few shots at her for doing what she did... 3 weeks ago. Good luck.
Author whoknows11 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 You sound just like me. We broke up after a bunch of rumors and the dumbest reasons. She still hasn't apologized to this day and continues to save face. The proceeding weeks after i got dumped (over text after a year of dating -_-) I went crazy and just had to talk to everyone about it. Probably like 10 of my friends and even some people I just met. I couldn't stop because I felt like they would help me somehow. If I were you I'd lay low for a while and stay in NC while you're still fresh off the breakup. Maybe your ex needs sometime to herself. As for me...Mine hasn't talked to me since I took a few shots at her for doing what she did... 3 weeks ago. Good luck. I really wish she would come back. Im deff laying low and leaving her alone. I wish i gave her this space before. All ill have now is guilt and regret. As i know ill never hear from her again. It really hurts. Cause i wish i didnt go wrong. But shes not coming back. All i can think of is that shes possibly with someone else now. Or is flirting/doing things with other guys. She hasnt told me anything. But its all i can think of being the reason that she decided to need space and to leave her alone. I wish im wrong i really do.
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