whoknows11 Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I found out why my ex just dropped contact out of nowhere with me. She said she needs space and that she said that at the start of the "break" ( clearly breakup). And that i never gave it to her. But she never said that. She actually wanted to keep in touch. So we did. And she seemed fine with contact. Now this happens. She also saw that i changed my facebook picture to just me. And she said " and also now that you changed your picture im done. Im sorry" . Idk how or why she cares to look at it. We arent on eachothers friends list. Havent been since we broke up. Im just lost and idk whats going on..
Author whoknows11 Posted July 13, 2012 Author Posted July 13, 2012 Any advice would be helpful. Im just really miserable now. Like ive had the life ripped out of me, or someone close to me died. I just thought i was doing the right thing.
livelife Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Any advice would be helpful. Im just really miserable now. Like ive had the life ripped out of me, or someone close to me died. I just thought i was doing the right thing. Um, you need to explain to her that you two are no longer together so you don't want to see her face everytime you log in, that it hurts you. are you on her profile picture?
Author whoknows11 Posted July 13, 2012 Author Posted July 13, 2012 Um, you need to explain to her that you two are no longer together so you don't want to see her face everytime you log in, that it hurts you. are you on her profile picture? I didnt say anything to her about it. But it does. My pic has been of us. I finally changed it. But no its not on hers. Hasnt been since we broke up. Cause she was mad i deleted her so she deleted our pics. And wont re add me. Cause she claims that she doesnt want to see something thatd upset her. But its a lie. I said i had nothing to hide. She must be. But idk. After what went on today with this space thing idk what shes thinking or wants. Idk whats going on.
livelife Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I didnt say anything to her about it. But it does. My pic has been of us. I finally changed it. But no its not on hers. Hasnt been since we broke up. Cause she was mad i deleted her so she deleted our pics. And wont re add me. Cause she claims that she doesnt want to see something thatd upset her. But its a lie. I said i had nothing to hide. She must be. But idk. After what went on today with this space thing idk what shes thinking or wants. Idk whats going on. Then its best to give her space. Sometimes we all will crack, but thats okay. its bound to happen. But really she shouldn't be upset over a freaking PICTURE when she did the exact same.
Author whoknows11 Posted July 13, 2012 Author Posted July 13, 2012 Then its best to give her space. Sometimes we all will crack, but thats okay. its bound to happen. But really she shouldn't be upset over a freaking PICTURE when she did the exact same. Im going to leave her alone. I dont think she ll come back as much as i wish she would. I just thought everything was alright with us conversating. Cause we talked almost everyday after the breakup. She was completly fine with it. Even would text me at times when i stopped responding for a while and took long to respond. She even always worried that theres someone else or that im doing something with another girl. I dont get it at all..
livelife Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Im going to leave her alone. I dont think she ll come back as much as i wish she would. I just thought everything was alright with us conversating. Cause we talked almost everyday after the breakup. She was completly fine with it. Even would text me at times when i stopped responding for a while and took long to respond. She even always worried that theres someone else or that im doing something with another girl. I dont get it at all.. Then let her think that. THe best thing to do is give space, currently im struggling with it, but I go on here to try to stop myself, sometimes it hasnt worked ill admit. But the best thing to do is go NC so you can heal yourself,and it will give them time to miss you.
Author whoknows11 Posted July 13, 2012 Author Posted July 13, 2012 Then let her think that. THe best thing to do is give space, currently im struggling with it, but I go on here to try to stop myself, sometimes it hasnt worked ill admit. But the best thing to do is go NC so you can heal yourself,and it will give them time to miss you. Thats what im going to do. Just give her space. I hope she does miss me but i doubt it if she hasnt already by not seeing me or talking on the phone. Just texting. This nc thing is the hardest thing ive done. Its so hurtful and rough when i dont hear from her. Days seem like forever. Just wonder if shell come back or is she just working on another guy. Many thoughts.
livelife Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Thats what im going to do. Just give her space. I hope she does miss me but i doubt it if she hasnt already by not seeing me or talking on the phone. Just texting. This nc thing is the hardest thing ive done. Its so hurtful and rough when i dont hear from her. Days seem like forever. Just wonder if shell come back or is she just working on another guy. Many thoughts. hey im right there with you! it hurts a lot. a small memory and you want to text them so bad.
Samilia Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I found out why my ex just dropped contact out of nowhere with me. She said she needs space and that she said that at the start of the "break" ( clearly breakup). And that i never gave it to her. But she never said that. She actually wanted to keep in touch. So we did. And she seemed fine with contact. Now this happens. She also saw that i changed my facebook picture to just me. And she said " and also now that you changed your picture im done. Im sorry" . Idk how or why she cares to look at it. We arent on eachothers friends list. Havent been since we broke up. Im just lost and idk whats going on.. It's childish, disrespectful, a good goat to justify of her decision. You changing your picture was a sign that you're no puppy, she didn't like it, her ego was hurt. Good for you
Author whoknows11 Posted July 13, 2012 Author Posted July 13, 2012 It's childish, disrespectful, a good goat to justify of her decision. You changing your picture was a sign that you're no puppy, she didn't like it, her ego was hurt. Good for you Yeah i know, idk why it matters anyways if i did change it or that shes looking. Shes the one who left me. And wants " space " , claiming i never gave it to her. However its just so hard not contacting her. Cause i do want her back. But idk anymore. Just really confused/lost.
Samilia Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Yeah it must be hard. It's not like you're going to get struck by lightning if you contact her, but I don't think it's the best idea, she might hurt you again.
Author whoknows11 Posted July 13, 2012 Author Posted July 13, 2012 Yeah it must be hard. It's not like you're going to get struck by lightning if you contact her, but I don't think it's the best idea, she might hurt you again. Youre right, i just dont get how she was fine with it the whole time and wanted it. Never mention she needed space and that i never gave it to her until now. She completly turned on me. I just thought i wasnt doing anything wrong. Each day without her just kills me. Its so much worse that im not hearing from her. She got me. She really fooled me..
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