miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 what did this man say? Nothing in particular, there was no line. His friend came over to hit on my friend and so he struck up a conversation with me... then as his group was leaving told me he wasn't leaving til he got my number. They left without him, we spent the night talking and then I gave it to him along with a ride home. Cool guy, we still hang out, but the whole dating thing didn't end up working out.
one goal Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Also about looks like myself for example only try to talk to hot girls. I mean on a scale 1-10 10 being hottest it's only 8 and up for me.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 If he's a cool guy and you still hang out, and his looks are not a problem, why didn't it work out? I think you need to eat some whole grains, because you're full of ****. Its called certain traits that I do NOT admire, like expecting constant communication while dating. He was a bit clingy after the first date, and I work a lot so it was something I just couldn't handle. Maybe it is just me, but I have met tons of great guys who I have dated and still am in contact with, they just weren't right. Call me full of ****, but when it comes down to it, he was a good guy, just not the guy for me... and his looks had NOTHING to do with it.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 I'm sure you'd be so offended and turned off if John whatshiscock expected constant communication while dating. I would actually. I have ended things with hot men for the same thing. Believe it or not but I am a woman that knows what she wants, I give almost anyone a chance but if something comes up that I don't want nor appreciate in a man I have no problem cutting the ties. That does not mean I immediately deem that man a terrible person, I just make it clear nothing long term relationship wise will come of it. *shrug*
one goal Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Nothing in particular, there was no line. His friend came over to hit on my friend and so he struck up a conversation with me... then as his group was leaving told me he wasn't leaving til he got my number. They left without him, we spent the night talking and then I gave it to him along with a ride home. Cool guy, we still hang out, but the whole dating thing didn't end up working out. Hmmm. That kinda gives me an idea. Maybe I need to be more pushy than I have been in the past?
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 You see, you shouldn't of even bothered responding to my question, because it was already a checkmate : #1- Because you're lying. #2- Because if you admitted that you wouldn't care (which you wouldn't, the opposite actually, what woman doesn't want a man they like to be constantly in contact with them?) , then you would look shallow. #3 - If you were to say that yes, you would've discarded him for that, then you are so incredibly picky, you have just admitted to Loveshack that you want to die alone. I am a woman who works full time, has friends, and family. I want someone but cannot stand a man that sees fit to be upset at me for not texting back right away. I am willing to make time for a man, but I refuse to work my schedule and drop all plans for him. I guess I just want to die alone.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Hmmm. That kinda gives me an idea. Maybe I need to be more pushy than I have been in the past? I figured he was bluffing. He wasn't
one goal Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 I figured he was bluffing. He wasn't Nope, wasn't. I think I should be little more pushy getting numbers next time. Earlier this week I hitted on that hot chick in class. That chick last summer was just nuts. I'm only taking one class this summer at the junior college, but when my university starts back up next month I'll have more chances this time hopefully since Im taking six classes. When it comes to looks I prefer women who are as hot as Katharine McPhee example. She is a mega hottie who got married to a now 47 year old!! Actually I met her 5 years ago she is so much hotter in person. I've hitted on her too before.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Well if you can't change your life even a little bit (IE, take 5 minutes out of your "busy life" to respond to a text message) for a good man that you get along with then you don't deserve anyone. And at this point I am done conversing with you. You are completely right, I don't deserve anyone and I DEFINITELY want to die alone.
USMCHokie Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Hmmm. That kinda gives me an idea. Maybe I need to be more pushy than I have been in the past? You've actually stumbled upon something quite important here...there is a way to get past the surface trait requirement...and that is to force yourself through it and essentially give the girl no choice but to get to know you beyond the surface... As Miss Rae pointed out, she wouldn't have remotely considered him unless he had forced his way in...she even though he was bluffin'...so I might safely conclude that he didn't pass surface trait muster...
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 You've actually stumbled upon something quite important here...there is a way to get past the surface trait requirement...and that is to force yourself through it and essentially give the girl no choice but to get to know you beyond the surface... As Miss Rae pointed out, she wouldn't have remotely considered him unless he had forced his way in...she even though he was bluffin'...so I might safely conclude that he didn't pass surface trait muster... Completely right, by the time he DID force himself though, he already had my attention. You should be able to tell if you have earned enough interest to force your way to getting a number. I am glad he did too, he was a fun date and we still have a good time when we hang out.
one goal Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 You've actually stumbled upon something quite important here...there is a way to get past the surface trait requirement...and that is to force yourself through it and essentially give the girl no choice but to get to know you beyond the surface... As Miss Rae pointed out, she wouldn't have remotely considered him unless he had forced his way in...she even though he was bluffin'...so I might safely conclude that he didn't pass surface trait muster... So you mean I need to "force my way" in? Kinda like in hockey when you're down late in the game you pull the goalie and go all out to try and score? I need to be more persistant I guess.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 So you mean I need to "force my way" in? Kinda like in hockey when you're down late in the game you pull the goalie and go all out to try and score? I need to be more persistant I guess. I must admit, his persistence definitely showed me he meant what he was saying and wasn't looking for an easy lay. It also helped me learn a bit more about him and therefore become more attracted to him. He definitely charmed his way to a kiss that night.
USMCHokie Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 So you mean I need to "force my way" in? Kinda like in hockey when you're down late in the game you pull the goalie and go all out to try and score? I need to be more persistant I guess. More like it's the last minute in the game and the coach leaves you on the bench but you go out there anyway when the goalie is pulled, leaving the guy who was supposed to replace the goalie straddling the boards wondering what the f*ck you're doing... 1
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 More like it's the last minute in the game and the coach leaves you on the bench but you go out there anyway when the goalie is pulled, leaving the guy who was supposed to replace the goalie straddling the boards wondering what the f*ck you're doing... ROFLMAO. Perfect example.
one goal Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 I must admit, his persistence definitely showed me he meant what he was saying and wasn't looking for an easy lay. It also helped me learn a bit more about him and therefore become more attracted to him. He definitely charmed his way to a kiss that night. Nice!! I mean it worked on a hot chick like yourself, why didn't it work for me last summer? I had this super hottie in my class and we were in a group for a project. I texted her like everyday and we'd text like hour at a time, VERY nice even after I asked her out the first time. She was single too. Last fall I hit on my leader at college. What a leader is basically a fellow student who does orientation with us, and someone to talk to during our first year at school. She was flirty, touchy and we'd like hungout once with a couple other people, but once I started to hit on her, her whole demeanor changed. She like changed her facebook settings, and then blocked me and my friend who she also met at orientation and he liked her too. Anyways I lost that friend because she too also blocked him from facebook as well and he got really mad at me. We were kinda competing over her a little bit. Anyways once day she texted me and told me to go see campus counsling services and to leave her alone! She was always friendly, touchy and stuff with me. After that she would ignore my texts. I'd see her in the hall a few times and she'd look at me and I'd just give her mean glance and ignore her.
USMCHokie Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 ROFLMAO. Perfect example. Sometimes you just have to be a honey badger...
USMCHokie Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Nice!! I mean it worked on a hot chick like yourself, why didn't it work for me last summer? I had this super hottie in my class and we were in a group for a project. I texted her like everyday and we'd text like hour at a time, VERY nice even after I asked her out the first time. She was single too. Last fall I hit on my leader at college. What a leader is basically a fellow student who does orientation with us, and someone to talk to during our first year at school. She was flirty, touchy and we'd like hungout once with a couple other people, but once I started to hit on her, her whole demeanor changed. She like changed her facebook settings, and then blocked me and my friend who she also met at orientation and he liked her too. Anyways I lost that friend because she too also blocked him from facebook as well and he got really mad at me. We were kinda competing over her a little bit. Anyways once day she texted me and told me to go see campus counsling services and to leave her alone! She was always friendly, touchy and stuff with me. After that she would ignore my texts. I'd see her in the hall a few times and she'd look at me and I'd just give her mean glance and ignore her. Unfortunately, this post alone gives me a vague idea of why these girls were not interested...
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Unfortunately, this post alone gives me a vague idea of why these girls were not interested... ... can't say I don't second this statement...
one goal Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Unfortunately, this post alone gives me a vague idea of why these girls were not interested... Well she was the one who gave me her number. Like orientation she wasn't even in my orientation group. She just walked up to me and offered to be me leader since I didn't have one. She just gave me and my friend I met her number and said I could hangout and that. Also she is huggy too, flirty, ect which gives off mixed signals. I mean she's huggy, flirty, talkative. Usually that is a hint to a guy. She shouldn't felt so offended.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Well she was the one who gave me her number. Like orientation she wasn't even in my orientation group. She just walked up to me and offered to be me leader since I didn't have one. She just gave me and my friend I met her number and said I could hangout and that. Also she is huggy too, flirty, ect which gives off mixed signals. I mean she's huggy, flirty, talkative. Usually that is a hint to a guy. She shouldn't felt so offended. How old are you? 1
USMCHokie Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Well she was the one who gave me her number. Like orientation she wasn't even in my orientation group. She just walked up to me and offered to be me leader since I didn't have one. She just gave me and my friend I met her number and said I could hangout and that. Also she is huggy too, flirty, ect which gives off mixed signals. I mean she's huggy, flirty, talkative. Usually that is a hint to a guy. She shouldn't felt so offended. It's nothing more than the way you write...I can only assume that it's similar to the way you speak, and all I can picture when I read that post was an "OMG girl"...but in boy form... Suffice to say, it's not hot.
one goal Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 It's nothing more than the way you write...I can only assume that it's similar to the way you speak, and all I can picture when I read that post was an "OMG girl"...but in boy form... Suffice to say, it's not hot. What do you mean?
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