Unplugged Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 If you haven't read my last thread why don't you go take the time to read it, it will help you understand this one. If you don't want to, then that's fine. So I'm pretty sure this might just be a common issues, dealing with the guys ego. I hate goin through this break up. I mean I love him with all my heart and then some, but I mean I'm trying my hardest to get over him but two things keep getting in the way. His ego and my stupidity. I let what he believes stop me from doing what I believe. He believes that he can get me back in the snap of his fingers, so when he gets bored he try's to get intouch with me. And I just let it happen. Please someone, anyone, help me. How do I deal with this. I do I deal with his mr.get what I want personality. He draws me right back in when he does this to me and he knows just how to. He starts off by not talking to me all day but still at the end of the day messaging me good night beautiful, and it's all down hill from there </3 so please help me !
Lendar Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 I must say that he knows how to seduce (nice tactic with the messeges). I would advice you to start hating him. They say that there is only a thing line between love and hate. I want you to cross that line. You must not talk to him not one day, than one week. Do him what he does to you! 1
Appleness Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Hi Unplugged! So, I have to ask...are you the dumper or the dumpee? Do you want him back? If you don't want him back then just ignore everything. Go NC and you'll break free because people with egos feed on the attention so when you cut them off, they think you suck and will go away. If you do want him back, then you should know that in my experience, guys with egos get really jealous. Have you thought about dating anyone else to try to move on? 1
Mariana345 Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 why don't you change your phone number? That way he can't send you text and you don't have to know about him I know that you shouldn't do that for him, but he is pestering you, so maybe some mesures should be taken... 1
Author Unplugged Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 I actually broke up with him, but I felt as if I had too, he put me through to muc and I needed it to end, yeah I want him back but I can't put myself through it all again and he probably doesnt want me back. And yeah I actually have thought about dating other people. But it just doesn't feel right. I feel like I'm trying to force myself to like someone other than him.
weallfalldown Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 And yeah I actually have thought about dating other people. But it just doesn't feel right. I feel like I'm trying to force myself to like someone other than him. yea dating aint good if you feel this way.....just awaste of yours and their time ... 1
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