Brokendude Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Its ok, ur only human and are prone to some mistakes, we all do it, just remember how u felt today and learn from it, keep ur head up
steelgator Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 yeah i know man ill go almost a couple weeks and think "hey maybe she'll talk now, and if she doesn't its ok because i'll still feel the same its just a text." But don't fool yourself...you start right over from square one. NC gets easier each day but that first week is so brutal.
Thisisbs Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 yeah i know man ill go almost a couple weeks and think "hey maybe she'll talk now, and if she doesn't its ok because i'll still feel the same its just a text." But don't fool yourself...you start right over from square one. NC gets easier each day but that first week is so brutal. I wouldn't say you start exactly at square one, but you do take many steps back. You feel complete **** again for sure.
Gulf-Delta Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Think of it this way: You're that much closer to never wanting to break NC again
Author IST Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 Think of it this way: You're that much closer to never wanting to break NC again Oh I don't intend to break NC again. If she contacts me though, I may respond. I actually feel better about messaging her now. I wrote a couple paragraphs about what she meant to me and how our relationship impacted me, and that I'm okay with us splitting apart and wishing her the best. It provided a sense of closure/resolution I guess you could say, rather than feeling like I was lost. I feel like I can actually move on now. That relationship is over. I'm a better person for meeting her, even if we have to go our separate ways. I can accept that now and carry on with my life.
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