Shohane Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 After BU, we've blocked each other on FB. Some friend of mine after knowing what he did to me (that led to the bad BU), said they wanted to "troll" him a bit on FB (like, tell him what a horrible person he was or taunt him)... Should I let them do whatever they want, or tell them not to?
Mariana345 Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Tell them not to!! It's great that your friends want to help you but that is just like childish and will make him feel like he has too much atention from you. Do the opposite, don't care about him, I know, its difficult, you want some kind of revenge, but maybe now is not the time...
Samilia Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Not sure. Could you handle it? I don't think you need more drama or negative vibes right now. What's good is that you got friends on your side, supporting you. Instead of writing on his wall, why don't you have pictures of you and your good friends plastered all over you guys mutual facebooks? And smile
Author Shohane Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 (edited) Not sure. Could you handle it? I've blocked him everywhere; even IF he contacts me (out of anger or anything), he won't have any effect on me any more. but maybe now is not the time... So when is the time? lol Edited July 16, 2012 by Shohane
forgottenangel99 Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 I agree with Mariana, DO NOT LET THEM DO THIS!!! The reason I say this is because I made the mistake of directly doing childish things out of shock, anger hurt and wanting to hurt him as much as I hurt but it will backfire!!! It only justified his actions especially in other's eyes and made me look like a high school (middle school for that matter) crazed ex (I'm 31 with two children and one on the way, not cute blowing up someone phone all night telling them you hate them). My best advice is to figure out a healing plan. I personally began to start paying attention to the things that I neglected while I was with him and tried to take things day by day instead of trying to just from BU to whole new person all in one day/week/month. Take time to grieve and do things that take your mind off of him. I know that's not gonna be easy, trust me I know whereas his child moves inside of me everyday so I can't forget my ex and never will, but it's one day at a time.
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