Edtheduck Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 In the space of a week, myself, as the dumpee, have realised 3 significant dates. 3 months since I last saw my ex, exactly 1 year since I said hi to her for the first time, and in 2 more days, exactly 3 months since she BU with me. Do you, as dumpers and dumpee's, remember significant dates? I think I'm remembering them as I'm clearly not over the girl, and miss her a great deal. Whilst I'm trying to move on, I can't help but think about how it went from so good, to utter **** out of nowhere. These dates get me down too. So many memories come back from them. I clearly still love her.
january2011 Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 (edited) Soon after the break-up of my last LTR, I was very heavily into analysing the situation. I came up with all kinds of data. I remember that there were a lot of analyses focused on milestones and trying to mark time. Now, over two years later, I don't remember a lot at all without significant triggers. It does help that I'm in a new relationship so I'm making new memories that seem to supercede many of the old ones. I'd advise you to do the same. Make some new happier memories. Edited July 15, 2012 by january2011
Gulf-Delta Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 I remember the day we left, and I remember the day we said "goodbye".
carhill Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 I recall my exW's and my first date. It was lunch, it was raining and she was way late. That was about 14 years ago. IMO, memories are signposts of one's life journey. One can assign any meaning and/or feeling to them one chooses. In the case of the above example, humor, as this would be a harbinger of her propensity to be late throughout our M. I can laugh about it, now
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