StrangeBehaviors Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Why do some men like bad girls/women? Women that break up with one guy to go out with them? Women that break up with them to go out with someone else, then want to return, and the guy they broke up with accepts them back? Allowing this cycle over and over?
Pyro Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Addiction to drama which is due to insecurity. Life isn't good enough when things are calm and uneventful.
sid3 Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Why do some men like bad girls/women? Women that break up with one guy to go out with them? Women that break up with them to go out with someone else, then want to return, and the guy they broke up with accepts them back? Allowing this cycle over and over? These guys have low self esteem and self worth. 1
Author StrangeBehaviors Posted July 14, 2012 Author Posted July 14, 2012 These guys have low self esteem and self worth. My thoughts as well. Seeing threads on here where "she broke up and is now with so and so. How can I get her back?" I've even seen guys that will take someone back that breaks up with them, sleeps with someone else, then they take her back again and again. WTF would you ever want her back? 2
sid3 Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 My thoughts as well. Seeing threads on here where "she broke up and is now with so and so. How can I get her back?" I've even seen guys that will take someone back that breaks up with them, sleeps with someone else, then they take her back again and again. WTF would you ever want her back? Umm? Because she's special:lmao: I guess they figure they'll never be able to meet anyone else and are willing to take what they can get. 2
dreamingoftigers Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 I think it's because they figure they'll get attachment free sex OR they want to be her hero and help make her into a good woman. They figure as ling as she keeps coming back, what they have must be special and she'll "outgrow" all of the other stuff.
robaday Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 yeah my ex was a bad girl, kinda highly emotional, jealous, controlling, needy, high maintenance, didnt know if she was up or down, I was a bad boy when we started dating, i guess in the sense i was into the party scene, hung out with dealers etc. I changed though, cleaned up my act, am a social worker now, and guess im a nice guy. Its this - the sex was dynamite, 3 times a day for three and a half years, i loved the drama too,was addicted to it. Problem is as i got nicer she got more and more dificult. Our roles switched and she was the bad one! Still miss that crazy girl, wouldnt want to be with her, but my god she was nuts, and i loved her for it! 1
Author StrangeBehaviors Posted July 14, 2012 Author Posted July 14, 2012 yeah my ex was a bad girl, kinda highly emotional, jealous, controlling, needy, high maintenance, didnt know if she was up or down, I was a bad boy when we started dating, i guess in the sense i was into the party scene, hung out with dealers etc. I changed though, cleaned up my act, am a social worker now, and guess im a nice guy. Its this - the sex was dynamite, 3 times a day for three and a half years, i loved the drama too,was addicted to it. Problem is as i got nicer she got more and more dificult. Our roles switched and she was the bad one! Still miss that crazy girl, wouldnt want to be with her, but my god she was nuts, and i loved her for it! One of my buddies says "The crazier the bitch, the better the pussy. But it never lasts...."
USMCHokie Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Addiction to drama which is due to insecurity. Life isn't good enough when things are calm and uneventful. Well, drama = attention. If you aren't used to getting female attention, you'll take it any way you can get it. A "bad girl" who always incited drama would be a jackpot.
Pyro Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Well, drama = attention. If you aren't used to getting female attention, you'll take it any way you can get it. A "bad girl" who always incited drama would be a jackpot. An unhealthy attention. The first time that I got it was enough. I'd rather get no attention then that kind of it.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 and like peanuts? The food or the cartoon? Im making mental notes over here
Pyro Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 The food or the cartoon? Im making mental notes over here both of course.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 both of course. Mental note taken: "Start eating peanuts and watching peanuts." Do I score double points for eating peanuts while watching peanuts!?
fucpcg Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Why do some men like bad girls/women? Women that break up with one guy to go out with them? Women that break up with them to go out with someone else, then want to return, and the guy they broke up with accepts them back? Allowing this cycle over and over? This is what you refer to as a "bad girl"? It's not at all along the lines of what I would use to describe a bad girl.
Pyro Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Mental note taken: "Start eating peanuts and watching peanuts." Do I score double points for eating peanuts while watching peanuts!? That's not very 'bad' girl of you.
Author StrangeBehaviors Posted July 14, 2012 Author Posted July 14, 2012 This is what you refer to as a "bad girl"? It's not at all along the lines of what I would use to describe a bad girl. What then? Stripper with daddy issues? Cocaine & Meth problem?
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 That's not very 'bad' girl of you. What if I do it naked? That's "bad girl" right?
fucpcg Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 What then? Stripper with daddy issues? Cocaine & Meth problem? Well as I have said a few times before in here, if you don't get it I'm not gonna explain it to you. And besides, let it mean whatever you want it to mean.
Author StrangeBehaviors Posted July 14, 2012 Author Posted July 14, 2012 Well as I have said a few times before in here, if you don't get it I'm not gonna explain it to you. And besides, let it mean whatever you want it to mean. Never read it, must be a long explanation.
dbzeng Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 I typically don't like the bad girls unless they are really hot. Too much drama to deal with otherwise.
USMCHokie Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 An unhealthy attention. The first time that I got it was enough. I'd rather get no attention then that kind of it. Well of course, but if you're young and/or inexperienced, you won't know any better...
dbzeng Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 What if I do it naked? That's "bad girl" right? A girl getting nekked is considered "good" in my book.
Pyro Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Well of course, but if you're young and/or inexperienced, you won't know any better... precisely. You are learning young grasshopper.
USMCHokie Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 precisely. You are learning young grasshopper. And people often won't learn unless they get burned...which is exactly why I want a bad girl...
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