Gulf-Delta Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 I know you want answers, but put yourself in HER shoes. If someone called you up screaming and yelling and demanding, would you want to give them anything, but the dial tone? If I was in her shoes, I'd at least respect the person I left enough to talk to them.
Girlboots Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Ok, let's say she does speak to you and she tells you she can't be with you and she apologizes. It won't make you feel better. You THINK it will, but it'll make you feel worse. You want to hold on to hope, you don't want closure. My advice to you is to allow yourself time to heal. Are you gonna wake up one day and be like WOW I DON'T NEED HER! No, you wont. This is someone who was once important to you and probably talked to everyday, it'll take time to adjust. If you move in to a new house and you don't feel happy in it as soon as you move in because you don't know your neighbors, are you gonna move? No. You're going to adjust and try to make the best out of the situation. And also, she does think about you. She does somewhat care. She probably acts like it, but some people don't wear their heart on their sleeve. They go through great lengths to cover things up, but saying that she doesn't think about you ever is silly.
Oncehadluv Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 I think you guys are being pussies to be honest, catering excuses for her, letting it go her way and be easier for her, I'm not a pushover and not gonna let it happen like that, I will get my closure, I've given her space and time what she needed, now I want what I need... You don't leave somebody you love just because you were going through a bad patch, you get through it and come out stronger on the other side, you don't fallout of love with somebody because you argued for 2 weeks... if this is the case then she never loved me in the first place, but she continues to insist that she did love me and did want to spend the rest of her life with me.... NO, THAT DOES NOT HAPPEN IN THE REAL WORLD. I WANT THE TRUTH.. YES SHE DOES "OWE" ME THE TRUTH, AND I DESERVE IT AT THE VERY LEAST were pussies huh? this girl has your soul in the palm of her hand and theres nothing you can do about it but let it go, if you think you will get closure from her end you will be waiting indefinitley, GROW SOME BALLS AND TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AND LEAVE THE WIMP INSIDE YOU DIE SO YOU CAN EARN SOME GROWTH AND MAYBE ONE DAY HANDLE YOUR BIZ LIKE A MAN
wilsonx Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 (edited) Im going to give you the best advice ever... I heard this from an older woman in her 50s tonight at the gym. Never talk to the bitch again, if you see her in public, dont acknowledge her. Dont answer her phone calls, dont respond to text messages, emails etc. I've seen women hate themselves after the aftermath of this being done to them. Good friend still to this day will not acknowledge an ex even in front of her and it eats at her soul. Move on with your life. There's obviously better fish in the sea. People have no empathy here for someone that's still in love with a cold heartless ex. Happens to the best of us. She loses the friendship in the end. She will regret it later on. Just shrug it off and date better women Edited July 14, 2012 by wilsonx 1
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