suzisher Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Long Story short. My boyfriend and I were living together and had been together 4 years. A couple months ago we broke up. I was over the relationship and done and ready when we did. When we were together my best guy friend who I have been in love with FOREVER. Tells me he loves me and wants to marry me. I agreed to end my relationship with my boyfriend for him, when I tried things didn't work out as planned. I explained to my best guy friend I couldn't leave my boyfriend and he stopped talking to me for two years. A year ago he re-added me on Facebook I would like his photos and status's every now and then and him vice versa. So after my boyfriend and I broke up a couple months later I decided to move back to my home state which is the same state my best friend lives in only he lives 6 hours west. I commented on one of his photos saying "I miss you". He then messages me and says "come visit me if you miss me" I say call me later and he does. We talked for about 3 hours. At first it was awkward and after awhile everything snapped back to normal. During the conversation he said he never hated me and he understood the reasons I did what I did and that he still wanted me to marry him(though he mentioned this casually). I joked that we could go to vegas and he said "no I want to marry you for real with my family there". He then said he had to go and he would talk to me soon. After that I got a text that said "want to have phone sex? haha just kidding" from there we began sex-ting and so on. The next day I texted him a couple times mostly photos of my face. Later he texted me said my phone was dead sorry and that he was hanging out with his mom because she was depressed and would talk soon. I said "aren't you such a good son" he said "thanks" and I never responded. This was three days ago. Then today I chatted with him briefly online just stupid stuff. He didn't seem interested in talking to me. When we talked earlier this week He kept mentioning he wanted me to come down and visit him I explained I don't have a car so I'd have to take the bus. I don't know how to handle the situation I keep wondering why he never contacts me? I know he has a busy job ,but I just think that for someone that loves me and supposedly wants to marry me i was maybe played a fool to just get me to send him nudes.
Philosoraptor Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 He sounds all sorts of messed up. You're wasting your time if you want anything more than a casual/sexual relationship with this person. He sounds like a flake. 1
YellowShark Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 He's not a "best friend." He's someone you know. And "friending" plus chatting on Stupidbook is not a sign of eternal love. Romance and face to face contact is. Forget him because he is not really in love with you. When you're really in love you move mountains to prove it. Not make a few random mouseclicks on Stupidbook and ask you to take the bus to come meet him. Forget this dude. He's just a horn-dog looking for easy action.
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