Having an affair with a married woman since 3 and half years

[goodguy2012]

I am an unmarried guy having an affair with a married girl for the last 3 and half years. She herself is in to her marriage since 5 years. When they were just married, her husband had slapped her and said to her that he does not love her.

It was after 1 and half years in to her marriage that me and she became friends and soon we started dating. First 1 year we just dated. However only since last 1 and half years we have been having sex, though we used to kiss and hug each other earlier to that.

While our relationship was building she was also trying to work on her marriage.

After her 4 and half years in to her marriage the progress that she made with her husband was that, they could hold their hands together and would use to hug. But nothing more romantic than that and they did not have sex during those 4 and half years.

But when I queried recently about her married life and asked directly whether her husband had intercourse with her, she said yes and said that it happened recently ie around 3 months ago. I asked her how it happened, she said somehow it happened. But I could never imagine this because our relationship was growing very well even during that period.

 

But even after she said about the development in her married life our relationship is further growing and now she does not even insist for condoms while having sex and now we meet much more often than before. Of course their is lot of love between us.

In the past 2 and half years, I have bore all her expenses, from her phone charges, to her dresses and lingerie and sandals, beauty parlor expenses etc

She does not ask a penny from her husband.

But I have also been refusing the marriage proposals brought to me from my parents. And hence they are in agony and upset and are saying that our relatives are insulting them by asking whether there is any problem in me as I am refusing marriage proposals.

Also I know that the girl I have loved can not divorce her husband as she was married in to her close relatives family. So her divorce will spoil the relation between the two families, which she can not dare to face.

I am in a fix as it is like doing a sin keeping my parents in agony by refusing to accept the marriage proposals, also if I walk out of the life of my girlfriend it would be like leaving her in distress as not only she is in a loveless and sexless(i still guess so) marriage , but also she would rather choose to be in distress than asking her husband for her any basic expenditures( She sacrificed her very good career to save her marriage and hence since has been running out money)And her love is what all I want too.

[Ami1uwant]

This is why you just dont do it with a married couple....who knows why she married him...was it for family reasons, for money, for somethign else....she wasnt going to leave him for you...now with the unprotected sex..its quite possible she will have a baby of yours that us credited to him.