edelveis Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 When can someone be sure about it?How you should feel to say that ?
AlexanderJames Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 The day you don't have to wonder what the answer to this question is. You'll know when you get there mate 3
darkmoon Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 you wake up one day and realize you've hardly thought about them lately out of sight, out of mind
oneluv443 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 ide say when you no longer wonder what their doing or who they might be with or if they've moved on. if you do hear about them/from them, you dont get excited or feel any kind of way.
blindnowisee Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 When you stop reading loveshack and start reading stuff like sosuave or rooshvforum ;-)
january2011 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 When you no longer frame all your thoughts/decisions according to them (how they would think/feel/behave if X/Y/Z). When you don't experience more than a slight tinge of feeling when they do pop into your head. And yes, when none of the answers matter anymore and you're not asking any more questions. Ultimately, when they are no longer relevant in your life*. *Assuming you are the type of person who doesn't keep exes around. 2
Dblock10 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 stupid question really when you can't remember there name? when you literally don't think about them ever. when you don't care. when you can see them getting ****ed by another person? the list could go on
carhill Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 When can someone be sure about it?How you should feel to say that ? When you meet her boyfriend and are glad you are not him. When you struggle to remember any of her family member's names. When you don't immediately recognize her on the street. When you're surprised to receive contact from her. When you look upon your marriage/LTR as a positive life experience. 3
rosadeldesierto Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 When you are open to love and be loved by somebody else but not your ex... I just read that ;-) 1
JohnP82 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 I think for me it was when she contacted me out of the blue, when I guess she found out the grass wasn't greener, and all I could think was how little I cared to say anything back. I didn't wish her harm or want her back, I just wanted to close her message and get on with what I was doing. 1
Author edelveis Posted July 14, 2012 Author Posted July 14, 2012 thank you all guys..i guess when you are over her there are no answers and no questions..you just know it..i am just afraid of the time when i ll see her again..i dont want to have feelings for her till then..i dont wanna just hide them coz then they might come up as a river..thats what i am so scared of..
mike588 Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 When you wake in the morning and he/she isn't the 1st thing on your mind or when you fall asleep not thinking of them. When going to places that the ex. and you used to go to and it doesn't bother you. When you forget the day you met or your anniversary...when you forget their sister/s or brother/s (familys) names. When you see a car exactly like the one they drive and it doesn't bother you.....and so many other things. It will happen in time.
Shohane Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 When you meet her boyfriend and are glad you are not him. LOL ... *thumbs up* 1
blondie 12345 Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 i was with my ex for 10 years and it took me 2 years to get over it. I now no longer think bout him I'm not bothered if I bump into him his fiancée n kids, and I actually now think y was ever upset lol Keep strong it will get better look at me 5 years on xx 1
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