jackielogan Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I am a girl, 28. I have a guy friend who I have known for a while. He is a rather big dork, but he gets tons of women. He confessed he's had about 30 or more partners. He said he's lost track of the number. What amazes me is how unattached he is. He can just have sex with a girl, and then forget her. He did date someone for about 8 months. She was the first girlfriend he had since college, and he is 33. But he dumped her, and jumped into bed with someone else the next day. I feel really jealous that he has the ability to do this. He's attractive, but he's not amazing looking. He makes barely minimum wage, and yet he gets all of these girls. Even the ex-gf was amazing. All of his friends loved her, she was smart and nice, made a six figure salary, and I thought she was super cute. We actually all kinda thought she was outside his league... But he dumped her cause he knew he could do better!! I wish a lot of times I was like this. I get really attached to guys I'm seeing, and I've gone long stretches of being single. I think the key is that he is pretty social and charming, but also that he's so unattached. He just doesn't care. He doesn't get emotionally invested in girls. So how do you learn how to do this? How can I be unattached like him? I want to be able to attract all these guys and just sleep with them without caring. I wanna be the girl version of my Guy Player friend. How can I do this?
Author jackielogan Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 The confident means I get hit on more, but how do I stop getting emotionally attached? How is my guy friend able to just jump in the sack with so many women and not care? To date someone for months and not care? I tried to ask him and he just ignored the question.
Author jackielogan Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 Seriously how do I be a female player, help.
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