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Wait for the rebound relationship to fail?


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I met a great guy about a month ago at a friend's wedding. We hung out and he seemed to really like me. I really liked him. I asked our mutual friend about this guy and was told that he really liked me, that I was his type, and that the guy was single. So I asked my friend for his number, and he gave it to me because he was really confident that the guy liked me and wouldn't mind. After all the build up, I thought it was a sure thing. I texted the guy, his friend texted him as well to let him know I was interested, but I never got a response.

 

Turns out, the guy is apparently seeing someone now. He "accidentally" deleted my text, so I found this out via our mutual friend. The someone is most likely a "rebound" chick because he recently got out of a LTR. I'm glad to not be the rebound, but I'm super bummed because I really liked the guy. My female friends keep saying that he will tire of the rebound, remember that I was interested, and for sure give me a call.

Does that happen?

Guys - would you do that?

 

I'm new to this site and to these types of forums, but I'm so perplexed and need some realistic insight.

 

Thanks!

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Sounds like you're looking to be the rebound of the rebound. If he's not healed up going into the one he's in now he's not going to be healed up right after this one ends either.

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Too much thought process for a guy you had one encounter with and never talked to you again.

I get that his friend said all that stuff, but when it comes down to it, the guy you are into never responded.

 

 

 

 

Move on darling.

If he calls later, awesome.

I in no way at all think you should just wait around for that call or even think about it at all.

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