alexa137 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 ok so the gu im seeing is mad tonight because i didnt go see him! i will try to make story short meet the guy 3 weeks ago, we have seen each 9 times so far and thats alot for me and i mean alot 99 percent of the other men ive dealt with ive only seen 3 or 4 times a month! yes i want a change and so far he is great and doing everything right but now hes tirning me off. we spent 12 hrs together yesterday and he even told me last night that we werent gonna see other for a few days he works long hrs everyday til 8pm, he aGREED to go at my pace but now he texted me alot saying we want diff things etc. wondering ig hes making up stuff i dont know, im confused and now like what! he waited 2 weeks to kiss me and i already told him i was waiting awhile to have sex, i saw him today on his lunch break for about 10 mins, but now hes acting crazy! told him to chill and relax he says he likes me alot and thought this go be something, ok so it still can! i dont want to see a guy everyday! just like my space and i have things to do you know so i dont know what else to say anyone else gone through this? am i being mean or what
Philosoraptor Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 You have to have a talk with him about what you'd like to have from this relationship and decide if the two of you will be compatible in that way. If you want to set boundaries you'll need to stick to them. 1
louise_23 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 you're not being mean. you met him 3 weeks ago and hes going semi fatal attraction on you. tell him to back off and if he doesnt like it thats his tough deal. dont be pressured into changing your routine if you dont want to.
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