Mark1 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I went on a date with a girl from OKCupid on Friday night We went to a fancy burger place, then walked around the river front holding hands 10 minutes in, she said it was the best date she's had in a long time We joked about all the things you aren't supposed to talk about on the first date - sex, ex's and politics We stopped at a couple of bars and she had a couple of drinks, which caused her to cozy up to me A LOT Walked her home, and made out at her front door at about 11pm She texts me at 2am saying "I had a lot of fun tonight. I'd love to see you again" So at this point I'm pretty pumped. I thought she was funny, smart (masters degree), and very open minded. Sunday night, I text her telling her what days are good for me, and she replies "hey, i got your text. this week is crazy busy for me, but I can meet Saturday?" to which I said that was fine Do I contact her between now and Saturday? I'm just wondering cause we've only had 1 date and her response last night seemed lukewarm, especially compared to her 2am text. Thanks
Philosoraptor Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 If you're interested of course you keep in contact. Don't ding her ten times a day but do ask how she's doing. A phone call would probably be a better choice. Don't play games though. You'll just confuse the both of you. Trust yourself and do what feels right. 2
cerridwen Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Contact her Wednesday with some idea about what to do Saturday. Propose that idea and lock in the time and place for Saturday. Don't let her tone from today's text throw you. She's busy is all. And because she's busy, don't contact her everyday. Give her some space and wait for Saturday. 2
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