mortensorchid Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I am astonished at how many threads I read here by men who have been put into the Friendzone. This is a classic line that has been probably used since ancient times and will never die, granted, but has any man truly been put into a Friendzone and then stayed happy? And on top of that, I have been broken up with by every man I have ever been with (with two or three exceptions) and they have all said this to me. But we do not remain friends. I try to be at least friendly towards them, but I get nothing but the brush off from them. All I can say about it is that I hope all of us heal somehow.
brahmabull117 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 if you're getting friend zoned, you're likely not good looking enough and/or not confident/charismatic enough for the women you're approaching. Improve yourself and/or aim for lower quality women That's the honest to god truth
USMCHokie Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 if you're getting friend zoned, you're likely not good looking enough and/or not confident/charismatic enough for the women you're approaching. Improve yourself and/or aim for lower quality women I agree, for the most part, but if you're good looking enough, I speculate that women will secretly keep you out of the friend zone, regardless of your personality. It's no different from men who have female friends they want to bang, regardless of their personality. I am a big fan of the binary rating system. A person is either a 0 or a 1.
Nicomis Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 The friend zone is the worst possible outcome for a man in pursuit of a woman. Women relegate these poor bastards to this fate when they are not attracted to you, but they know you like them, so they want you to be their friend to stroke their ego. Stupid fools actually stick around and become a girlfriend with a penis, thinking they will someday have a shot. This is typically done by attention whores. WooHoo!, nothing more fun than watching the girl you like screw every guy but you! In the occasions where this has happened to me, I just break all communication. I'm quick to tell them that I am not interested in their "friendship".
brahmabull117 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I agree, for the most part, but if you're good looking enough, I speculate that women will secretly keep you out of the friend zone, regardless of your personality. It's no different from men who have female friends they want to bang, regardless of their personality. I am a big fan of the binary rating system. A person is either a 0 or a 1. I know good looking guys who do horrible with women. If you don't have a personality, it doesn't matter if you look like Michael O'hearn
USMCHokie Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 The friend zone is the worst possible outcome for a man in pursuit of a woman. Women relegate these poor bastards to this fate when they are not attracted to you, but they know you like them, so they want you to be their friend to stroke their ego. Stupid fools actually stick around and become a girlfriend with a penis, thinking they will someday have a shot. This is typically done by attention whores. WooHoo!, nothing more fun than watching the girl you like screw every guy but you! In the occasions where this has happened to me, I just break all communication. I'm quick to tell them that I am not interested in their "friendship". Yep. Getting the emotional attention they want without having to provide the sexual attention. And I will also put out there that this is not limited to men...women can be put into the "friendzone" as well...or more likely, they are put in the FWB-zone...
KungFuJoe Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 (edited) Friendzone is a myth. It just means he/she never liked you that way to begin with. Perhaps I'm misunderstanding the thread. I'm talking about when people say that because they didn't act fast enough or didn't do the right thing they ended up just as "friends". Those people never had a chance to begin with. Edited July 9, 2012 by KungFuJoe
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