Dblock10 Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 Bit of a horrible situation I'm in and trying to figure my head out. What do you do when you know you want to move on as there is nothing you can currently do to help the situation... but....by doing so, you may have closed the opportunity for reconciliation in a years time. so you know staying in contact is possible via fb and Skype etc and you then try to get on with your life as best as possible but in a sense not being able to truly move on or let the other person go from your life since they are still in that contact what can you do. bit of background here > http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/334215-come-go thanks
Mr Scorpio Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 It sounds as though, while you want a committed relationship, she wants anything but that. Leaving to travel the world? Leaving to head to another country? While on a side note I wish I had the "guts" to do something like that, it doesn't point to her wanting to be in a stable, committed relationship with anyone at this point in time. So, to answer your question, I would do what you claim to want: move on.
Author Dblock10 Posted July 7, 2012 Author Posted July 7, 2012 It sounds as though, while you want a committed relationship, she wants anything but that. Leaving to travel the world? Leaving to head to another country? While on a side note I wish I had the "guts" to do something like that, it doesn't point to her wanting to be in a stable, committed relationship with anyone at this point in time. So, to answer your question, I would do what you claim to want: move on. yeah thats right, she doesn't want a committed relationship with anyone at this point in time, yet i feel like she isn't or hasn't let me go. so it leaves me on the fence
The Tallest One Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 Take it from me my friend, move on! I know it's hard, easier said then done but you owe it to yourself otherwise your just wasting your time. People who keep you on hold or expect you to wait for them are not worth it. I can't put it any simpler, not trying to be harsh at all, I just spent last fifteen months of my life in a roller-coaster relationship with a women who couldn't make up her mind if she wanted to commit to me or not even though I treated her like gold and treated her like she had never been treated in her life only for her to end things two weeks ago. It's just not worth the time and the pain!
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