wonderingSoul Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 Ive been hanging out with this girl for 2 months now. I met her on a dating site, and we hung out about 5x already. 2x just me and her 3x with friends. She lives kinda far in another state but makes the attempt to come see me when she can. I dont drive so i cant go out to her but she makes the effort to come see me. Now the other day she came to hangout with me and my friends at a bar and one of my friends tried to big me up to her saying i really liked her blah blah blah. Now we hung out wednesday night to see the fireworks show with a few of my friends also. Today we were talking and she told me that we were just friends. I knew this already and didnt think nothing more of it. Now this girl is a virgin, a 25 year old virgin at that and today when i spoke with her on the phone she was like i wanted to talk to you about what one of your friends said to me. that i know u really like me but we are just friends. She also said she kinda sees me as being a little sensitive since my friends were making fun of me and it looked like i was getting mad(Which is never good but thats not what happened in my eyes, im just bad at cracking jokes bad sometimes so i just dont say anything) Im trying to see this in a positive light as since she is a virgin she does not want somebody that just wants to quickly jump into anything with her. Im really trying to see it that way but idk. I do like her, i dont have feelings for her. the only feelings i have for her is i wanna continue to get to know her and seeing what happens. So in your opinion is it really just a lost cause? My friend who said that did not help me in a way and her seeing what happened on wednesday did not help me either. I know all of you will say just dead her and move on. But i do really like her and want to continue to get to know her. So any advice/guidance on this will be greatly apprecieated. thanks
darkmoon Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 try discussing a celebrity wedding and/or divorce and see hints in her answers about the matter, people discuss celebrities alot anyway,
SJC2008 Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 She said you're sensitive dude it's over. I'm not saying you are but for her to tell someone she barely knows that, that's pretty ballsy sounds like she's got problems.
Author wonderingSoul Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 Scjb I guess you r right. Once a woman thinks yuou are sensitive the whole attraction aspect goes right out the window. Men r not supposed to show any emotiom , at least so close to the start, and since she thinks I did I'm just totally out the game. I wanna stick in there but reading from countless online posts they all say the same thing. Just give up
Eddie Edirol Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Scjb I guess you r right. Once a woman thinks yuou are sensitive the whole attraction aspect goes right out the window. Men r not supposed to show any emotiom , at least so close to the start, and since she thinks I did I'm just totally out the game. I wanna stick in there but reading from countless online posts they all say the same thing. Just give up You wre never in the game. She always thought you were freinds, and she meant it. She said that because she was never attracted to you from the beginning, she just didnt telll you why. So it is a lost cause. 1
Author wonderingSoul Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 You wre never in the game. She always thought you were freinds, and she meant it. She said that because she was never attracted to you from the beginning, she just didnt telll you why. So it is a lost cause. Yep ur right now its time to say **** it no matter what I try to do in the end it is hopeless. Truth hurts but what can I do right
Eddie Edirol Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Yep ur right now its time to say **** it no matter what I try to do in the end it is hopeless. Truth hurts but what can I do right You learn from it and dont hang with women that you didnt kiss on at least the second date.
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