DonVee Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 I'm constantly finding myself going back to him, we disagree then break up then we contact one another and eventually get back together then the cycle starts all over again. I'm so tired of fighting and sometimes I hate that I even love him... I need to let him go and at this point its easier said than done. I haven't talked to him since Sunday (4 days) and everyday gets harder and harder but I'm trying my hardest not to break no contact. Give me strength cause I need peace... Oh I didn't mention I'm pregnant
dreamingoftigers Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Books: How to Break Your Addiction to a Person Women who Love too Much Boundaries by cloud & Townshend
Author DonVee Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 Is it his child? If it is, does he know? Yes... He's not emotionally invested when i told him this he got angry but how else would I feel if he don't even like to talk about the baby until we break up then his child becomes number one priority "sigh"...
Author DonVee Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 It's become a very manipulative thing for him to use. it going to be hard to go from here. First come the matter: do you even want the child? It was unplanned however I happy at the thought of becoming a mother, but I dislike who I'm pregnant by I never thought my first pregnancy would be so depressing
Appleness Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 Sorry but Congrats VonDee! Try not to focus on the negative (your sperm donor, in this case) and focus on the positive... You get to be a mom. How good is your support system (parents, friends, relatives, etc.)? Personally, I think this will make a world of difference in your case because the stronger your system, the less you will think about/ resent him for not being there. There are lots of community outreach places in most cases with counseling.
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