big bear Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Well my original story is here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/328000-its-complicated-till-hell Let me confess by saying I begged her to come back, she would not even talk to me. After all this, a week later I got an interview call and since, all my stuff was with her (in a different town) I had to get it back. Asked a mutual acquaintance to get it back. She called me a couple of time while returning the stuff I only messaged, because I was too ****ed up and did not want to cry again in front of her. My interview goes as planned and she does not contact me at all that day. Next day she texts me, I do not respond. Then she starts calling. After 5 calls my sagest friend asks me to tell her how did things go (He said you gotta be better than her). The call lasted only 56 seconds. Very formal and to the point. After that it's NC. After 25 days I decide it's time to unfriend her from FB. Let her live the way she wants to. 2 days later she makes a change in her settings making searching her not possible. The thing is I removed her from the friend list but why does it still hurt me. She has not blocked me. Why does this the most insignificant gesture hurt? Since, I had a begging phase I sent friend request to all her friends (Only one accepted). Shall I unfriend her too in-spite of the fact she accepted my friend request? I need a little nudge here. As if dealing with past guilt (My original post) was not enough this has added to my woes.
blotter Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 I think you need to stop beating yourself up. Your relationship failed, big deal happens everyday. You need to stop worrying about all this stupid stuff with facebook. It's all nonsense and in the scheme of things not worth wasting another thought on it. Learn from your mistakes, go NC, heal, and move on to better things.
CopingGal Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 I think you need to stop beating yourself up. Your relationship failed, big deal happens everyday. You need to stop worrying about all this stupid stuff with facebook. It's all nonsense and in the scheme of things not worth wasting another thought on it. Learn from your mistakes, go NC, heal, and move on to better things. That's why I deleted my account. I didn't need such nonsense in my life.
KatZee Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 That's why I deleted my account. I didn't need such nonsense in my life. Oh God, it's ridiculous. So many people put so much emphasis on Facebook. When my ex and I broke up I had a few of his friends delete me on Facebook. As if our relationship concerned you? Wowwwww... you showed me!
YellowShark Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Delete yourself from Facebook too big bear. Take a holiday from Stupibook. And then all this Stupidbook "drama" simply fades away.
CopingGal Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 (edited) Oh God, it's ridiculous. So many people put so much emphasis on Facebook. It's not ridiculous if your ex uses facebook as a weapon to hurt you. That's what happened in my case. Dealing with facebook can add to your pain, Big Bear. It's not ridiculous to be concerned. Lots of people can attest to that. Edited July 6, 2012 by CopingGal
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