Ingridf Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Why does someone you've spent the last 2 and a half years with break up with you, then immediately removes you, your family and mutual friends off Facebook? Like I'm nothing but a stranger to him now!! We've broken up several times, all to his doing not mine. As I was the one who's always been broken up with, and no matter how hard times were between us it never crossed my mind to end things. Could this really be it? And should I just let go this time? 1
sypoy Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 It's not that s/he doesn't like you or that it's easy for him/her (probably him), it's because he wants to forget you faster & to heal faster from the breakup. It's hard for both sides.
Author Ingridf Posted July 4, 2012 Author Posted July 4, 2012 A couple of days ago he said he loves me even more than he ever did before, and wants me to be the biggest part of his life. I well believed that until now. As its gone totally opposite. From being that some one to no one. This is what happens every time I try talk to him. It never leads anywhere apart from him breaking up with me, ignoring me for a couple of days and then wanting me back. I just feel this time it's different and don't know if I should bother messaging him to try talk or let him call it quits..
blotter Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Well if you like the way you are being treated and enjoy going through this cycle over and over again then you should contact him. If you are done with this type of stuff then call it quits.
Zammo25 Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 He sounds like a cruel Jerk. Be done with him and move on.
Samilia Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Why does someone you've spent the last 2 and a half years with break up with you, then immediately removes you, your family and mutual friends off Facebook? Like I'm nothing but a stranger to him now!! We've broken up several times, all to his doing not mine. As I was the one who's always been broken up with, and no matter how hard times were between us it never crossed my mind to end things. Could this really be it? And should I just let go this time? Probably his way to cut contacts for good, he did you a favor, even if I understand why your feelings got hurt in the process. Imo a dumpee should always be the one to cut the ties, before the dumper gets the chance to do it, that way you keep a sense of pride and can start NC.
Enema Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 But you didn't have to cut me off Make out like it never happened And that we were nothing And I don't even need your love But you treat me like a stranger And that feels so rough
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