eunpa Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 I posted a few weeks back about this here. To summarize, my exboyfriend and I broke up when he was sent to Algeria for his job. We only dated a month, but it was pretty amazing. We still talk smalltalk via text messages, but nothing serious. We mostly talk about what I'm doing because all he does there is work. I still miss him every single day. Even though I am kind of seeing a guy who I liked before I met my exboyfriend I still miss him every day. I feel guilty about this, but this current 'relationship' was agreed to be short-term (I'm moving away). I want to tell him how much I miss him. I want to tell him even if we were only dating a month I still think I love him and I just want to wait for him. Trying to date other people feels a little like cheating, even if we aren't together. However, I don't think telling him is the right thing. I think it would make things worse. My friends who I've talked to say I will probably still be in this country when he gets back, so I should just wait to see what happens. It's so hard though. Our relationship was so great until he had to leave. Am I having tunnel vision? I don't know what to do. Dwelling on it doesn't help...but I can't get him out of my head.
Alban Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 If you feel like waiting , then wait ! Wait for him to come back and ask him out, go out have fun with him . After a couple of dates ask him what he feels about your relationship , about you.. I hope you can get your answer . And that you were just a month together doesn't mean that you can't fall in love with him.. I wish you good luck and that everything will be just as you like it to be. 1
Author eunpa Posted July 7, 2012 Author Posted July 7, 2012 Ah ~ Waiting is going to be so hard though, even with us still talking as friends... Yesterday I was telling him about looking for a new teaching job here in Korea. I told him about taking a TEFL course later so I can get higher pay...and he offered to pay for it. It's not a cheap thing... He's still trying to do things like this for me. Even if he say "I want to do it...as exbf." I told him exes doing do something like this. Boyfriends do, but he said whatever let me do this to support you. Why is he still so kind to me. I want to just be back together because his kindness just make me miss him and cry. It just made me want him back now.
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