zolo425 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 About a month ago my girlfriend of about 2 years left me. She never gave me a good reason of why she left. Now a month later she is starting to tell me. While we were dating we had our little fights but they were nothing major. I always forgave and forgot. Well I guess she never did. Apparently she held on to all of our little problems. Eventhough she doesn't remember what they are about, she knows though when we argued. She plays softball and there is so much damn drama with that team. Well with "our drama" and the teams drama she couldn't take it anymore. She decided that she didn't want to deal with so much drama in her life. She dumped me. She thought dumping me would relieve some stress. She gained a lot of stress loosing me. She thinks we should see other people for right now. What doesn't make sense is she said she loves me. I love her too. Does it make sense that 2 people who love eachother are seeing other people? Shes already tried getting with 1 guy but it failed. Now shes wanting ti get with another guy. Ive tried to be with other girls but I cant do it. She told me she'd love to get back together with me, just not now. And that I need to change. Should I wait for her??? Or should I just get over her and find another?? I love her so much, and I know she loves me. Why cant we be together?
WeAllMightBeNuts Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 It's the same B.S. test seen on here over and over. Break all communication with her. All of it. Then do whatever you want. Go somewhere, buy something you've wanted, move, go out with other women. Do WHATEVER you want to do. She's given you a license too. She wants to play this "I love you and think I'll end up with you but let's see others..." WTF?! Really!? WTF!?! Are these people that do this out of their mother f#$@ing mind?!?! "Hey, I'm gonna' totally disrespect you and use you when I want too. And I'm gonna' tell you things you want to hear so you'll let me do it." Vegas odds are that it is over. Going No Contact is the best approach like it or not. 1
Imajerk17 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 YOU need to change? Did she even say how? She sounds batty excuse the pun. What a selfish wench. Tell her to stop blaming you for her issues and go find someone else.
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