luvinthesun Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Here in south temps were 10 today. Then we had a monster storm with 80 mph winds... My child n i...toddler were at Bf when happened...very suddenly about 9 pm. Bf ran outside to his car. It was shaking trailer. News reports sayong to vacate moile homes and get in ditch. Chimd i I run to bathroom tub. I call for Bf outside...limbs falling...etc. To.please come in. We are scated. He yells....I am staying with my car...the most important thing in my life. Child and are on tub. Winds howling. Trailer shaking. I can feel it lifting. So scared. One hour and bf finally comes in. Later he discounts me being scared saying place isn't going anywhere. Wpuld u be upset/ 1
leftfordead2 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Here in south temps were 10 today. Then we had a monster storm with 80 mph winds... My child n i...toddler were at Bf when happened...very suddenly about 9 pm. Bf ran outside to his car. It was shaking trailer. News reports sayong to vacate moile homes and get in ditch. Chimd i I run to bathroom tub. I call for Bf outside...limbs falling...etc. To.please come in. We are scated. He yells....I am staying with my car...the most important thing in my life. Child and are on tub. Winds howling. Trailer shaking. I can feel it lifting. So scared. One hour and bf finally comes in. Later he discounts me being scared saying place isn't going anywhere. Wpuld u be upset/ English please. 1
Author luvinthesun Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 Sorry. I was on my phone. Power flicking off and on. My hands were still shaking when I wrote this Don't know how edit.
Author luvinthesun Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 Sorry about the English-typos. I am at my home now. We luckily have power. Tried to talk with bf about my concerns- he says I am mental- have issues. Told me his stuff was there long before me-his trailer, shed and his car and they mean more to him than anything as he worked hard for them. "What did he want me to do- hold me hand." I told him- no but checking on us would have been nice. If I can figure how to upload pics- I will add a link here to the damage. Forecast today is 101 with more storms. Explained to bf to take care of his things- that I would rather be at my place. Where I don't have to be left alone to cower in the bathroom tub with my toddler- crying and scared. I ended up hanging up on him when he said how I could go ___ this or that guy. I don't need that. Now he is texting me nasty stuff- so I blocked him. My child and I are hitting the pool- HOT!
Author luvinthesun Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 This is what he is texting me now- " So go ___ urself- glag ur outta my hair and my life I will be on ok cupid in an hour then- Me and __ friend name- going to ___ park- to meet some cute girls there with a brain... and were going to ___ local big city- tonight and going to hooters. then texting- "calling ___ (guy I clean for) and getting my sister (on disability) to clean tomorrow so take care of your child the best you can"
Feelsgoodman Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Sorry. I was on my phone. Power flicking off and on. My hands were still shaking when I wrote this Don't know how edit. If the first thing you do after having this "terrifying" experience is reporting it on LS, maybe you weren't that shaken up after all. Women
YellowShark Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 I would protect the people closest to me over material items. There is no debate. Material items can be replaced. Life cannot. He showed his true colors in a real crisis. He's a materialistic douchebag who covets his frikkin' car over you and your child. Dump him. 1
shayla Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Now he can continue his relationship with things, because he obviously hasn't grown up enough to have relationships with people. Enjoy your home, and your child. That BOY can kick rocks. Block his number and make your next choice a grown man.
Author luvinthesun Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 Items can be replaced I guess he figures they can't...but people can... Wow.
Feelsgoodman Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 OP, was it at least a nice car? Or some old, rusty Trans Am?
veggirl Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Why are you surprised? Your boyfriend has NEVER treated you well. He has blatant CONTEMPT for you but you stay!!! Please ditch him! He pretty much hates you! He has no respect for you. Why would he? He treats you like s.hit and you come back for more. If my BF said "f.uck yourself" to me, oh it would be over so fast his head would spin. I am sad that you allow a child around this a.sshole. You are either teaching your daughter to accept a disrespectful hateful partner or you are teaching your son to be that person. Really sad.
Art_Critic Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 English please. I read the OP's post and didn't have a problem understanding that her BF left her and her child to fend for themselves in a violent storm. I think the OP needs to dump the chump.
Art_Critic Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 This is what he is texting me now- " So go ___ urself- glag ur outta my hair and my life I will be on ok cupid in an hour then- Me and __ friend name- going to ___ park- to meet some cute girls there with a brain... and were going to ___ local big city- tonight and going to hooters. then texting- "calling ___ (guy I clean for) and getting my sister (on disability) to clean tomorrow so take care of your child the best you can" Tell him it is over and tell him to go get that profile on OKCupid warmed up.
Author luvinthesun Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 Yes. It is a nice car. He has a $30k car and a $60 k motorcycle...and a shed falling down and trailer falling down. The landlord wants to give it to him. It's in bad shape. I do try and clean and clean it...hard with all the cats. We are done. Just need to get my things. 1
spookie Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Christ... think of your child... is this the way you want him/her to learn how to treat people?
threebyfate Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Yes. It is a nice car. He has a $30k car and a $60 k motorcycle...and a shed falling down and trailer falling down. The landlord wants to give it to him. It's in bad shape. I do try and clean and clean it...hard with all the cats.This pretty much sums up his childish priorities. We are done. Just need to get my things.Excellent. Best decision you will ever make. The guy's a dip.
ascendotum Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 If your place started falling apart I am sure he would have rushed in when you started screaming, though he is a little limited in his powers to turn back a full on storm. I know it sounds bad, in that you can say he abandoned you in the face of a crises, but he was just outside. (Not sure what he could do to protect his vehicles except move them to a shelter) I'm curious as to how it would have been better if he joined you in the bath. Would it have been better if he stood over the bath, baseball bat in one hand and shaking his fist at the sky with the other, yelling I aint gonna let you take them lord.
Author luvinthesun Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 No ... I just expected him to check.on us...or he could have assured me that the straps were good or something...which I never heard of until the day after. Many a mobile home has been demolished here. Bf...ex Bf...admitted it was the worst storm in forty years he has seen. He has lived in mobiles his entire life. I haven't. People who have lived in mobiles have told me how worried they were for those still in them. O just certainly don't expect in a crisis and me and child are scared to tell me how much more impt. His vehicle is. If that was the case he should have a garage with nearly 100k in vehicles. And btw...I was worried about my car...but I'm not going to stand outside like an idiot to get hit by limbs and trees smashing down like thunder. He also told me he doesn't have full coverage on the car...and he his required too. Oh well... I am done with him. There were other things said that night too..about how I should at 11 pm go out and clean up.limbs in his yard. He was worried about them blowing toward car.
irin Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 so what exactly was he hoping to do by sitting with his car? protect it from the storm lol. theres nothing that he couldve done if the storm hit his car, would have be damaged in seconds. he sounds very stupid actually, he put himself at a bigger risk by being in a car. p.s. i would stay with complete strangers (humans), if i was that situation. just block him out of your life, im hoping the baby isnt his? 1
Author luvinthesun Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 (edited) Yes. I have no idea...and if he got hurt...I have my child to take care of...and he weighs 260 ...the ex Bf that is. Very stupid. And he has no health insurance..oy. More stprms coming this way... Nws just issued warning. So glad in my house...with basement! Picture from this morning...power line across road...just missed historic site... http://im1.shutterfly.com/procsrserv/47a2d811b3127cce98548a78721e00000030100AcN3Lhw4ZOWWA/cwvDm9asA3Lw9bM2Abl5es2TSw Edited July 1, 2012 by luvinthesun
Feelsgoodman Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 Yes. It is a nice car. He has a $30k car and a $60 k motorcycle...and a shed falling down and trailer falling down. The landlord wants to give it to him. It's in bad shape. I do try and clean and clean it...hard with all the cats. We are done. Just need to get my things. Ummm what? A $60K motorcycle?? And he lives in a trailer? Talk about ghetto rich. 1
spiderowl Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 No decent guy would behave as he did. You want a hero in your life - a guy who will protect you and your child - not this guy. 1
Sid6.7 Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 I am surprised some of you actually took a bite out of this post. Well done OP.
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