Green Light Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Everyone else is dating, so why aren't you...? Bad luck? No luck?
Green Light Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 You guys give up after a single no. My Ex-fiance said no at least a half dozen times in a 3 month period. She even explained to me she was not attracted to me in the slightest and I should give up asking her out. I was too short, too old, and she liked her men wearing a sport coat and tie My current girl friend also turned me down several times over a three year period. She was living with a guy so I backed off. We were just short of being friends, and I lost track of her for over a year. Then one day by chance I happened to see her and this time she had just separated from the live in BF. Aha my chance, shot down again. But two weeks later she called me. Faint of heart never won fair maiden Sounds like good luck.
2.50 a gallon Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 USMCH Actually quite the opposite. The Ex-fiance was a 22 year old hispanic gal with the face and body of a young Sophia Loren. Which brought her plenty of male attention. We went out of a Thursday. That Friday she was supposed to go on a date with her kind of number on guy to one of the fanciest restaurants in town. And that Saturday night she was scheduled to attend her first fancy ball, complete with limo ride, for the young adults of the well connected. He was the son of a local politician I took her fishing. She had never gone fishing and had never spent any time in the wilds.
2.50 a gallon Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Green Light Or not giving up just because she rejects your first offer. Remember the song "Girls Just Want to have Fun" Go against the grain, and instead of asking them out to dinner, be different, take them to a tractor pull, the local races, go-cart riding, a sporting event, the water slide, and yes even fishing. Just be confident and have fun
Bristolius Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 because ive given up on the opposite-sex. im not a man hater, just have no interest in relationship with a man anymore. i like them as people, friends, whateva. Take a break for a while, and stop thinking about it. But don't give up. You're still young, yes?
monkey00 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 I think my failures in dating lie in the fact that I've resulted in using OLD..which is just plain bad. But I'm not socially crazed enough to go out there (bars/clubs) and mack on girls and meet people all the time, I do enjoy my personal space. I can though if need be and will talk to a girl if I think she's attractive. I wonder too if some days I'm too picky, maybe that's why
Mr Scorpio Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Originally Posted by Mr Scorpio I'm terribly afraid of getting involved with someone and then getting dumped a few months in after I've developed an attachment. Then don't date anyone ever. There are no guarantees in life. After you finish school and are massively in debt, there is no guarantee you will get a job and if you do get a job, you might get fired. I suggest you go to bed and pull the covers over your head. Hey! How did you know my coping strategy?!
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