Necromancer Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 My life would have been so much easier. No wasted childhood. I wouldn't even need a personality, I could just be the **** on the floor and still attract crowds of gals, be their dream prince with nothing incomon nor to offer beside looks. I would have taken so much advantage off it! I can see how my friend's are treated based on looks. Your looks are your human worth. (for average people). What would you do?. 1
Desinova Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 If you think your worth as a human is tied completely to your looks, you need to talk to someone.
Author Necromancer Posted June 29, 2012 Author Posted June 29, 2012 If you think your worth as a human is tied completely to your looks, you need to talk to someone. If you are born really ugly, then people will not treat you with much respect, ignore you and will automatically think that your a loser. If your really good looking you will be tested like a superior, are interesting and people will automatically think your bold and confident.
Badsingularity Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Men who are not the super hot can develope super hot attitudes and personalities that create chemistry and get the same benefits that someone who was born super hot does. Doing this also comes with the added benefits of becoming a well round cool person that people will want to keep around.
oldshirt Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Men who are not the super hot can develope super hot attitudes and personalities that create chemistry and get the same benefits that someone who was born super hot does. Doing this also comes with the added benefits of becoming a well round cool person that people will want to keep around. I agree with that. the catch is the super hot 5% get things handed to them on a silver platter and the rest of us have to work at it and put in effort.
Titanwolf Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 If the top 5% is based solely on looks, I'm already there lol and I turned out fine. I don't use that to take advantage of those women's shortcomings, I have 1 friend (the rest are acquaintances) and though I have a handsome face, I had a mother and a father who didn't give a single gram of **** what I looked like. So you better believe I treat everyone with respect, that wooden spoon hurts bro.
oldshirt Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 If you are born really ugly, then people will not treat you with much respect, ignore you and will automatically think that your a loser. If your really good looking you will be tested like a superior, are interesting and people will automatically think your bold and confident. I agree with this as well. So if you are born ugly you have to get your $h!t together because you will have to prove your worth and overcome people's initial bias's. And if you are super good looking, people may give you the initial benifit of the doubt but if you can't back it up people will be all over your $h!t also because deep down everyone wants to knock a beauty down a few pegs. 1
Titanwolf Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 I agree with this as well. So if you are born ugly you have to get your $h!t together because you will have to prove your worth and overcome people's initial bias's. And if you are super good looking, people may give you the initial benifit of the doubt but if you can't back it up people will be all over your $h!t also because deep down everyone wants to knock a beauty down a few pegs. May I ask in what country you reside in? I haven't noticed this in Europe, and I'm very observant of these things.
MooBear Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 My best friend is gorgeous. Tall, fit, long blonde hair, nice rack, gorgeous face - the whole package. She was born that naturally beautiful. But that's all a lot of guys have wanted her for! She has been dumped more times than you would think. I have seen that girl spend months being unable to find a guy to date properly. She used to cry to me about how lonely she was. Despite being beautiful, was still lonely. Confidence and a great sense of humour will get you everywhere. Another friend of mine - blonde and gorgeous (I'm the ugly one in my group of friend's, they are all stunning) - she got hit on by a guy who had a facial disfigurement (a severe one) and was in a wheelchair. She was trying to say no thanks and being polite about it but within half an hour he had her comfortable and laughing and they ended up dating for about 6 months before he moved interstate for work. And that's not one of those dating urban myths - I actually used to go out for drinks with them I'm tempted to do a whole Barney Stinson "True Story" routine here but I think you get the drift lol
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Uh, 95% of people weren't born in top 5% 1
SmileFace Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 What the F#$k is the top 5 percent? This place is full of stories.
AD1980 Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 It's so true look at posts on here about women not even liking guys but staying because the guys so hot:rolleyes: If youre really good looking women will search and wait for chemistry that isnt there if youre unattractive youll never get to see if theyres chemsitry most of the time
Badsingularity Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 It's so true look at posts on here about women not even liking guys but staying because the guys so hot:rolleyes:[/Quote] They stay because they feel very strong chemistry with the guy. It is not all about how he looks. If youre really good looking women will search and wait for chemistry that isnt there if youre unattractive youll never get to see if theyres chemsitry most of the time[/Quote] A man who does not have model good looks can still create instant strong chemistry with women if he knows what he's doing. 1
Cracker Jack Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Instead of imagining how much easier or better your life would be if you were in the upper echelon of looks, focus on making yourself a more attractive man to the best of your abilities. No reason to get so caught up in the "what-if" thinking. It does nothing.
mortensorchid Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 I have been told that I am beautiful, but it doesn't mean anything because I have been dumped more times than I care to think about. And some of said of those who only go for beautiful people that they are shallow. So you can't win no matter what you may be doing/saying, right?
jobaba Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 To be perfectly honest, I think if I were born in the top 50-60% of looks, I'd have had no problems in dating. As far as what I'd do if I became a top 5% guy tomorrow ... ... find a relatively unattractive woman who has an modest, awesome personality and tell all the hot women who say "What are you doing with her?" to shove it up their arse. 2
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