one goal Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 So I had class today. I was more talkative today so the class noticed me more and was funny and that. One of the girls happend to sit next to me today while we did our group stuff. There was a nat/small fly that got stuck on my shirt and she picked if off me lol. The hottie I really like I didn't get a chance to talk to today, but at least she noticed me because I was really talkative in class today and that and funny everyone would laugh. Is it okay I add the hottie to my facebook you think since I don't get a chance to talk to her a lot? What should I say to her? Should I tell her I think she's a cool girl and that but that I don't get to talk to her much? Is adding to facebook okay?
utterer of lies Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 So I had class today. I was more talkative today so the class noticed me more and was funny and that. One of the girls happend to sit next to me today while we did our group stuff. There was a nat/small fly that got stuck on my shirt and she picked if off me lol. The hottie I really like I didn't get a chance to talk to today, but at least she noticed me because I was really talkative in class today and that and funny everyone would laugh. Is it okay I add the hottie to my facebook you think since I don't get a chance to talk to her a lot? What should I say to her? Should I tell her I think she's a cool girl and that but that I don't get to talk to her much? Is adding to facebook okay? No. Don't add the hottie. Add the girl who picked off the fly.
Cracker Jack Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 No, you shouldn't add her because she noticed you a bit more in class.
Author one goal Posted June 28, 2012 Author Posted June 28, 2012 No. Don't add the hottie. Add the girl who picked off the fly. Why that one who picked the fly? I'm pretty sure she has a bf.
Vintage79 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Why that one who picked the fly? I'm pretty sure she has a bf. So youcan only be friends with women who are single? I'd be comfy friending the fly girl, but not the hottie, unless you've had some more personal contact (i.e. like the fly girl).
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2012 Author Posted June 29, 2012 I sent her a message on facebook last night, but didn't send her a friend request. She has not replied back yet.
Author one goal Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 She still hasn't replied. Why do all girls hate me?
TDash Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 She still hasn't replied. Why do all girls hate me? Messages sent by those who are not on one's friend list end up in the "Other" column in the messages, and I don't think they are notified by the Facebook notifications or by email. I think that she will have to click 'Messages' then see the '1' in 'Other' under messages. She probably hasn't noticed it yet because of the odd Facebook system. I've been sent messages by people who weren't on my friends list in the past and didn't even notice until days later.
mortensorchid Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Not a good idea, for either of them. At least for the time being. You don't know either one of them, and nothing shatters the mystery of you and the others by adding them to Facebook.
Author one goal Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 I think you're right. I logged into another FB account and messaged my main one, and it doesn't give you a notification when you get a message from someone not on your friends list. So I guess I should send her a friend request, then if she accepts then message her.
Author one goal Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 Since I sent the friend request, if she approves will my message get moved to her message forder from her "other" one or would I have to resend the message again?
Author one goal Posted July 4, 2012 Author Posted July 4, 2012 Today in class she didn't say a word to me at all about it, or talk to me at all. Once again I'm brushed off by a girl. We got assigned groups today, and I got another super hot chick in it and everyone got each others email addresses and cell numbers.
Christine52 Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Facebook ruins dating. Just stick to old face to face/phone only. Trust me, I speak from experience.
Author one goal Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 She still hasn't approved my friend request.
truth_seeker Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Facebook ruins dating. Just stick to old face to face/phone only. Trust me, I speak from experience. Care to elaborate?
oaks Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 She still hasn't approved my friend request. What's the age gap between you and her?
Author one goal Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 What's the age gap between you and her? I dunno. Maybe 7 years? Like I said I look VERY young. Most think I'm 21ish. That chick last year couldn't believe how young I looked.
Christine52 Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Care to elaborate? With facebook, just like text messaging, there is this whole "ball's in your court" issue, as well as the intense, emotionally wrecking waiting period that is inevitable. You cannot decipher a person's feelings nearly as well through typed words. it's hard enough face to face to gauge a person's feelings towards you. A lot of things can be misinterpreted. In other words, body language (which a lot of guys still struggle interpreting), is how most women communicate how they truly feel, NOT words. When you call someone, or see them face to face, you can see upfront what they're feeling when they're with you, whether they're attracted to you, how they respond to your touch, etc. A lot of questions are answered right away - for example, you'll get an answer back if she wants dinner RIGHT away. Not waiting 2 weeks for her to finally text you back, or check her long forgotten FB page. It's a royal waste of time waiting for people, and frankly, when you're constantly checking your fb to see if she responded, it's a little sad, and truly a waste of your energy.
Imajerk17 Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Everyone: For what it is worth, this is what you are dealing with here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/164405-getting-over-celeb-obsession-crush Be VERY careful giving this guy advice.
Christine52 Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Everyone: For what it is worth, this is what you are dealing with here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/164405-getting-over-celeb-obsession-crush Be VERY careful giving this guy advice. OMG that is REALLY disturbing..thanks for letting us know
oaks Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 I dunno. Maybe 7 years? Like I said I look VERY young. Most think I'm 21ish. That chick last year couldn't believe how young I looked. Meh. She probably just thinks you're that old guy from class.
Trimmer Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Everyone: For what it is worth, this is what you are dealing with here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/164405-getting-over-celeb-obsession-crush Be VERY careful giving this guy advice. And just in case you will tend to think - oh that was a long time ago... consider a couple others: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/276353-recap-talk-dept-head http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/289190-okay-buy-her-small-gift This is not a poke at the OP, but intended to give posters some useful background as context for further advice.
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